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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Where do we go? | 10/14/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: My wife and I live in El Paso TX. We hear rumors of a swingers clubs but can't pin one down. We also ... A: I googled swinger club, el paso, tx and I got a list of clubs located in Texas. You may have to try ... | ||
| wife showing off | 10/8/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: I am not sure I am ready for swinging but my wife is clearly starting to become a tease or ... A: Okay, you have two avenues that you can follow. Number 1, lose the feelings of jealousy and relish ... | ||
| wife showing off | 10/8/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: I am not sure I am ready for swinging but my wife is clearly starting to become a tease or ... A: How do you feel about it ? Does it bother you or make you feel lucky ? Have you asked her how she ... | ||
| Swinging Alone | 10/5/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: I have been dating a woman for the past 2 years. Prior to our relationship, she was in the lifestyle ... A: There is no 'normal' when it comes to the Lifestyle. If both people are comfortable with one of ... | ||
| Taking the path towards swinging | 10/5/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: My wife and I are in our late twenties. We have been married for a little over two years, but have ... A: Glad to see it was a positive experience for you both. As long as you keep the lines of ... | ||
| Taking the path towards swinging | 10/4/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: My wife and I are in our late twenties. We have been married for a little over two years, but have ... A: My first thought is that you should have stuck to your guns and kept Michael off the list if you're ... | ||
| Help for newbies....Jealousy | 10/2/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: We are pretty new to this, only had a few soft swap experiences. I am Bi, my husband kind of drew ... A: "Anyhow, I want to keep it soft swap but the couples always seem to push for more" - My first ... | ||
| I want my wife to enjoy sex | 8/19/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: We have a solid marriage of 20+ years and I love my wife greatly.She is a 55 years young medical ... A: Sorry to hear about your medical condition, I can only imagine how rough it's been for you. Very ... | ||
| Lost my desire scared to swing again | 8/13/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: When my husband and I started dating we played with other couples frequently, even after marriage we ... A: Heidi, It's always a hard issue when one half of the couple is more interested in the lifestyle ... | ||
| my husband is too picky on selecting couple | 8/12/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: We are in mid 40's. Happily married for over 20 years. We both decided to find a couple for ... A: Lisa, That is a very common dilemma amongst swingers who are looking for something in particular. ... | ||
| Emotions...those ordinarily considered "good" | 8/11/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: I am a 21 year old female who recently entered into a sort of "friends with benefits" relationship ... A: Ariana, Firstly, its great that you and your husband are able to share this sort of intimacy ... | ||
| Making a decision | 8/9/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Mrs. Discreet, My wife and I are happily married and have been for almost 3 years. She was out ... A: Brad, It's great that the two of you have talked about it so much and so openly with each other. ... | ||
| Please Help! | 8/5/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: I am 21 years old and my 27 year old boyfriend of 2.5 years is bound and determined to sleep with a ... A: Nikki, I am sorry that you have found yourself in this situation. It doesn't appear to me that ... | ||
| Should we Swing or not | 8/5/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: My husband came to me and told me that he is not happy, he wants to possible have a single life to ... A: Newtoit, A couple should not enter into the lifestyle to fix a problem, or it will lead to more ... | ||
| I need some serious help... please... | 8/3/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Discreet, Where do I start? I have about a million questions, concerns and conflicts within my own ... A: Cassandra, I really feel for you and your situation. Getting into the lifestyle of swinging is ... | ||
| The Lifestyle | 7/26/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: I'm recently single and in my early forties. I've been interested in swinging for years but have ... A: Jim, Honestly, it is very hard for a single male to join the lifestyle. Many couples and single ... | ||
| how big of a deal is the big O | 7/19/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: My husband and I are new to swinging. We have played a few times with close friends of ours but for ... A: To answer your first question regarding how important is it for the woman to have an orgasm it all ... | ||
| Am I over reacting? | 7/19/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: My question is this: My fiance and I have both been in the lifestyle for several years and have ... A: Shellie, I completely understand where you are coming from and this is a hard thing for some to ... | ||
| Swinging fantasies - How to overcome jealousy? | 7/13/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Mrs. Discreet, My girlfriend and I have been fantasizing about having sex with other people, we've ... A: Antonio, Jealousy is somewhat natural and for some, it's not an easy thing to overcome. When she ... | ||
| Friends | 7/13/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Me and my wife have a couple that are very good friends and we often talk about them in bed, how we ... A: Mike, What an exciting time that you both are finding yourselves in. The fantasy of it all before ... | ||
| should we get into the swinging lifestyle | 7/12/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 7years and together for 12. We have met a couple that are ... A: Pat, From what you describe.. I would not recommend the lifestyle for you or your marriage. A ... | ||
| Sex | 7/9/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: how are you? My name is Frank and i am writing you with concerns about some sex matters.My fiance ... A: Frank, I wouldn't necessarily say that your fiance is bisexual. She may be more on the side of ... | ||
| Re: Is 'convincing' actually possible? | 7/8/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Intuitively I reach quite the same conclusions you mention regarding her predisposition to the ... A: G, Thank you so very much for the kind words. I believe after you mark a question as answered, you ... | ||
| Is 'convincing' actually possible? | 7/7/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Hello again! I (man) got out of a quite destructive (and sexless) marriage three years ago and now ... A: I always love to hear from people who are reading! Leave a comment or two every once in awhile. I ... | ||
| Swinging in Asia | 7/5/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Discreet, I'll keep my question as short as possible. I'm from SriLanka [South Asian region] %26 am ... A: There are a few resources for India, but it is not as popular as it is in the Americas. Here are a ... | ||
| Would like to start swinging with my wife | 6/22/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Mrs. Discreet, My wife and I have been married for two years, together for 6 total. She is a very ... A: Jason, Firstly, I apologize for not answering sooner. My husband and myself were on vacation and I ... | ||
| swinging | 6/19/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: i want my 45yo wife to sleep with younger guys,she is thinking about it.when she was younger,shehad ... A: Shawn, Firstly, you cannot "get" your wife to do anything. I am sure this is not how you mean it ... | ||
| Threesomes | 6/17/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: I have had several threesomes with my partner and a friend of ours. I am not attracted to the ... A: Erin, Honestly, I really couldn't tell you with an absolute certainty. What I can do is offer ... | ||
| New Swingers | 6/11/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: We have been married for 3 months and together for 2 yrs. Before marriage, my wife had a very active ... A: John, Firstly, I apologize for the lateness of my reply. I strive for a response in 24hours or ... | ||
| swinging or cheating | 6/9/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: my wife and i have been in swinging life style for about 10 years, while i was out of ... A: Bill, I guess it would depend on your rules of play. If you had agreed that it was ok for her to ... | ||
| STDs | 6/8/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: The thing is that my girlfriend and I (male) have been to several swingers clubs, yet only to watch ... A: Greg, Firstly, you are going at the swinging experience in a great way. Letting the most hesitant ... | ||
| what do i do?? | 6/3/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Feel like i'm going crazy,husband and I have been married for 7yrs, I had had threesomes before we ... A: Firstly, you most likely should have taken a step back and re-evaluated things after the soft swap ... | ||
| swinging | 5/31/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: My wife and I have been married for 14 yrs and are very happy,she is curios about women and would ... A: Gerry, You are in luck!! :-) There are many forms and variations of swinging, one of which.. ... | ||
| Swinging has destroyed our relationship | 5/31/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: My partner and I have been in a relationship for four years now. Both were very have both in the ... A: Sharon, Firstly, I apologize for not responding within 24 hours. I usually try to answer within ... | ||
| mature swinging | 5/21/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Yes,I'm a 41 year old black male who wishes to swing with older white bi- couples in the Long Beach ... A: I do not know your area and could not suggest specific places. I would try googling, "long beach ... | ||
| mature swinging | 5/20/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: Yes,I'm a 41 year old black male who wishes to swing with older white bi- couples in the Long Beach ... A: Donovan, First, educate yourself about the lifestyle. One can never be too prepared; especially a ... | ||
| swinging | 5/15/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: my girlfriend of two years has brought up the subject of swinging ... I am all for it ... but she ... A: Russ, Venturing into the lifestyle can be a very scary thing at first. While it is sexually ... | ||
| erectile problem when swinging | 5/11/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: my wife and I have started swinging since the last few months and have always been excited about it. ... A: What you are experiencing is quite normal for men who are new to the lifestyle. Although you are ... | ||
| How to tell old friends we "don't do that anymore". | 4/29/2010 | Guycurious |
| Q: My boyfriend and I began swinging early in our relationship. This actually did cause *our* sex life ... A: Whether or not you can just be platonic with your lifestyle friends depends upon the basis of ... | ||
| looking to swing the other is not | 4/23/2010 | Mrs. Discreet |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for almost 19 years we have a great sex life it's almost an ... A: Chrissy, Firstly, kudos on the great communication. Good communication between your husband and ... | ||
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Guycurious
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
We can answer the following type of questions: 1. My wife and I are contemplating swinging. 2. My spouse is interested but I'm not. 3. Friends of ours are swingers and have asked us to try it but we're not sure.
Experience
My wife and I have been involved in the lifestyle for about four years now. We've had many experiences with other couples.
Education/Credentials
Life experiences in the lifestyle.
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