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People who want to swing but have questions.
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Question hi, im 23 years old, i just want to asked is it normal if i not got bleed on my first sex to my boyfriend? because he told me that i was not a virgin because i was not got bleed, is it really a big deal to got bleed? i know sincerely that i was a virgin, he is my first boyfriend and until now were staying together, but on this matter, we get arguing because of this, i feel so bad, i dunno what to feel and get hurt after hearing that to him, please advice me?
Answer You are correct.
Some women do not bleed at all while others bleed a small amount and some bleed noticeably. Rough activities as a child can cause a woman to rupture her hymen. The hymen is a thin membrane that is typically torn upon first sexual intercourse. Sometimes its already been torn through things like athletics, gymnastics, or even bicycle riding.
The real question is if you have or have not had sex with someone else prior to your current boyfriend. If you have not had sex then you were a virgin no matter whether you bled a little, a lot, or nothing at all. Being a virgin means you have had sex with nobody else prior. Thats all.
Good luck and tell your boyfriend that if he loves you he should trust and respect you.
