Expert: Anita Roberts Date: 2/24/2005 Subject: swinging.....
Question I really want to be in the swinging lifestyle with my boyfriend, but I am really scared too. Its not because I am a jealous person or inscure because I am not that at all. Its because when we first got together he messed around on me so it has made me wonder and scared. What do you recommend?
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Answer brittanni,
Believe it or not there is less cheating among swingers than among the general population. The reason is that, generally, swingers get all the sex they want. There is no need to cheat.
You will have to decide whether your boyfriend will cheat anyway.
Communication is the key to swinging. Talk about this with him & tell him your fears.