About Scotto Expertise I can answer questions ranging from:
People who want to swing but have questions.
People who want to put their toe in the water but don't want to become swingers.
Experience I have participated in numerous swinging situations in the past including moresomes and threesomes including mfm and fmf types.
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Education/Credentials Bachelors with some Masters work in business.
Question I get really turned on thinking of watching my wife being with another guy. Is that wrong? I have no idea why the thought of watching her get fucked or give head does this to me. She is very conservative, but I have gotten her to roleplay this scenarion with me. I don't have the guts to come out and ask her to do this, but does the fact that she roleplays mean that she may try it? Thanks.
Answer No, it isn't wrong. Men are visual creatures more so than women are. Funny thing with women is that women are more prone to let a fantasy just be a fantasy whereas we men tend to see a fantasy as a goal to be realized. So, the answer to the question as to whether she would extend roleplaying to real life can only be answered through communication with your wife.
It is tough and takes a lot of nerve to say to your wife, "Honey, it would really turn me on to see you being intimate with another man" because you aren't sure of her reaction and our society has a stigma that says that a real man would never let his lady be with another man. This just isn't the case and my experiences are that when we are younger we tend to be less secure with our relationships. You might remember some of your first close relationships where not only were you not turned on by the thought of your gf with another guy you might have been a bit nauseated by the thought and jealous. Once you get a little older and you know the lady is yours and she loves you you can let your hair down a little and mentally explore what sorts of things turn you on. In your case tis the thought of seeing your wife having sex--the only way to really do this is as a third person.
Hope this helps. Talk to her and maybe when you are out having a drink and she is relaxed ask her to point out in a club or bar who she thinks you'd most likely to be physically attracted to and then do the same with her. Open the dialogue.
