Expert: Anita Roberts Date: 8/15/2006 Subject: trying it out
Question hey im joey, im married and have a daughter. I have thought about swinging ever since i had my first girlfriend, i want to get my wife interested in swinging but dont know how to tell her, i have asked her how she feels if i had sex with her and another woman and she has said that she gets turned on from watching, she does watch porn with me, and she enjoys it, the only problem is she is not open in her sexuality, meaning she doesnt get loose in bed so i think that she would be uptight with swiging, how do you suggest i bring it up to her, whether this is just a fantasy or something i want is unclear but, my question is how should i bring this up in our conversations?
Answer The only way it will ever come about is if you talk to her about it. She has to know how you feel, perhaps then she will open up a little herself.
As for her not being loose in bed, there are two of you there. Make suggestions about what you want. If there is something in the porn you watch that looks like fun, suggest to her that you try it.
You might want to talk to her about how swinging works and what happens at a pary. Don't try to 'sell' it just let her know what goes on.
