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About Scotto
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I can answer questions ranging from: People who want to swing but have questions. People who want to put their toe in the water but don't want to become swingers.

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I have participated in numerous swinging situations in the past including moresomes and threesomes including mfm and fmf types.

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Bachelors with some Masters work in business.

 
   

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Topic: Adult Swinging



Expert: Scotto
Date: 10/3/2007
Subject: i want to watch my wife have sex with other men badly

Question
Hi there. My wife 23 very attractive and i 25. Well my question is the following i have been having fantasies the last couple of years of watching my wife have sex with other men does this make it bad on our relationship considering she is defiantly not into this thing, is there a chance i can convince her as time goes by or should i wait till she is ready for this. Can you please put into consideration when she was abroad for work 3 or 4 months she would message me how horny she was and, i would tell her that i want her to sleep with other men and to send me pictures, i was saying i don't want her to suffer, that i want her to enjoy sex and life, and she did, she did go out and have sex with 2 guys within this period of time cause we picked them out through Internet together, and she did send me pictures i loved it i jerked of to the picture, but however there was a third guy which she didn't tell me about only until she got home and it nearly got us divorced cause she had feeling for him cause she wasn't able to separate sex form love, and he satisfied her in bed much more than me and until this day i cannot satisfy her in bed, she cannot cum while having sex with me only when i lick her. So do i go through with trying to convince her that a 3 some with another guy is good or do i stop, please help.
O does it make me a bad husband for always wanting to see my wife fuck other guys?

Answer
Wow--I have to ask why this same day response merits a 7 out of 10.  We are just people that do this on the side...

No it doesn't make you a bad husband.  It just seems to be something that you enjoy and are okay with within the confines of full disclosure on her part.  If she is into having sex with men then why not indulge in something you both clearly enjoy.  Make sure however that you lay out all the rules in advance as to what is and is not permissible and that she clearly understands this is a situation of trust of her by you.

Good luck

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