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| Wife flirst with old flame | 11/21/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: Married 25 yrs. Great relationship. Wife recently reacquainted with male 'friend' from high school ...
A: Q: 1) How do I handle the flirting thing? (I want to get my feelings off my chest on this: it hurts ...
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| Wife One Night Stand, Pregnant, Abortion | 11/21/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: This year has been terrible in our marriage, we have been trying for children for 2 years, finally ...
A: You have your work cut out for you. If it's possible, the two of you should go to a couple's ...
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| Adultery | 11/19/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I've been married for 16 yrs and have 3 children 15,10,10. I have lived with my wife having no less ...
A: Don't be embarrassed. DBT has only been around since the 90s and is just now gaining widespread use ...
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| In need of some advice | 11/19/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am in desperate need for advice on what to do in my current situation. Its a little unusual but ...
A: Q; But, I just don't know how long I can wait. I know eventually I will need to call her because its ...
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| In need of some advice | 11/19/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am in desperate need for advice on what to do in my current situation. Its a little unusual but ...
A: Sorry to be blunt, but you have made one bad decision after another and are now asking yourself, ...
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| cheating?? | 11/18/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: .. me and my boyfriend have been together 1 years and 6months a good relationship with lows and ...
A: It's really hard for anyone to tell you if your boyfriend is cheating or not. I think the situation ...
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| My Husband Cheated | 11/17/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 12.5 years, and we have 3 children together, aged 9,7,5. I ...
A: Q: I want him to beg for my forgiveness. Is this wrong? A: No, it's not wrong. It's actually normal, ...
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| long distance cheating | 11/17/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: So, my husband and I haven't been doing too well. Something changed about 3 weeks ago. Can't really ...
A: The girl isn't the cause of the problem. She is just the symptom that is showing that there is a ...
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| Children and visitation with parent living with adultered partner after seperation | 11/17/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: When a parent leaves the home abruptly, spends almost no time with the child, but has moved in with ...
A: The effects of a parental split on a child depends upon how the parents handle it. If the child is ...
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| forgiveness | 11/13/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My husband of nine years walked out on me in March 09. I found out in June 09 that he had sex with ...
A: For therapists who work with infidelity, see: ...
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| I Don't Know What To Do | 11/13/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I am a 14 year old girl that has known that her father is cheating on her mother for quite a while ...
A: It's hard to know what else to tell you. Your father is doing things and not getting the results ...
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| forgiveness | 11/13/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My husband of nine years walked out on me in March 09. I found out in June 09 that he had sex with ...
A: Yes, anything is possible, but I would look around for evidence of that. Check cell phone records, ...
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| Repair After a Relapse | 11/12/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I want to start off by saying what you and this site are doing is a wonderful service for giving ...
A: I think that you should trust your gut. Something in you made you feel like he wanted to get caught ...
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| 22 Year Marriage 3 Year Affair | 11/11/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: After 22 years of marriage my husband sought out a woman from the neighborhood online and began ...
A: Based on what you have said, I think that you are headed in the right direction. You are right ...
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| 22 Year Marriage 3 Year Affair | 11/11/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: After 22 years of marriage my husband sought out a woman from the neighborhood online and began ...
A: I am not sure I know what your question is, but it sounds like you are just looking for some advice ...
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| how to move on | 11/9/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: please help me. my husband had an affair 12 years ago. he has denied it all this time and just said ...
A: The images in your head are just a normal part of the healing process. Don't try to stop it. Don't ...
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| Repair After a Relapse | 11/8/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I want to start off by saying what you and this site are doing is a wonderful service for giving ...
A: Q: Can there be repair after a second relapse? A; "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame ...
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| Affair with best friends husband, and my ex | 11/5/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am in a very sticky situation with my feelings. I am going to sum up everything from the start as ...
A: If you are sincere when you say, "I don't want to ruin his wife, and the life they have, and I don't ...
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| wife and her sex friends | 11/4/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I took your advice as well as some good friends of mine and told my wife that she had to find ...
A: I'm really glad to hear you are getting things straightened out. The relationship you had wasn't ...
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| Affair | 11/4/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I had an affair with a co-worker for 6 weeks. I blame myself for everything because I feel that I ...
A: You are still concerned about him not speaking to you because your regard for self is not higher ...
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| Platonic friends | 11/4/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My husband of 17 years had an emotional affair about 3 years ago. He said he has learnt his lesson. ...
A: Yes, it is appropriate for you to want to meet this woman, for their relationship to be completely ...
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| Affair | 11/3/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: I had an affair with a co-worker for 6 weeks. I blame myself for everything because I feel that I ...
A: I think your current feelings are probably connected to why you had the affair in the first place. ...
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| adultery | 11/1/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years. We've got 2 kids.Everything seemed to be OK ...
A: There is no way that anyone can answer your questions for you with 100% certainty, but it sounds ...
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| Adultery | 10/30/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My wife and I have been married for more than thirty one years. In a recent conversation about old ...
A: I think that you should use this as an opportunity for the two of you to have a better relationship ...
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| Devastation | 10/29/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My ability to have a trusting loving relationship has been totally destroyed along with all self ...
A: Sometimes confiding in more than one person confuses the issue because you get conflicting advice. ...
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| Adulterous relationship | 10/28/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: Laura my question is do relationships based on adultery last or do they fizzle out over time?? My ...
A: Statistically speaking relationships that start as affairs have a higher failure rate than ...
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| Devastation | 10/28/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My ability to have a trusting loving relationship has been totally destroyed along with all self ...
A: The first thing I have to say is GO TO COUNSELING! You need someone you trust to talk to. Healing is ...
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| I Don't Know What To Do | 10/28/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I am a 14 year old girl that has known that her father is cheating on her mother for quite a while ...
A: Your question is a challenge to answer. Not because I don't know what to do, but because I do know ...
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| divorced | 10/27/2009 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: After 5 years of having to deal with my husband cheating on me ( my ex-husband is a minister) ...
A: You didn't say if you had children. This would be the only reason he should be a part of your life ...
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| Adultry | 10/26/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: Over the summer I have noticed strange behavior in my husband. He tried to force me to be friends ...
A: The first thing you have to do if you want to heal is accept that your husband has been lying to you ...
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| 3rd party | 10/25/2009 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I've been in very dark places before and I think I'm still in one. 2 years 3 months ago, during the ...
A: Vanessa, Before I answer you, can you tell me if you are a born again Christian? If not, are you ...
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| After divorce questions | 10/25/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I thank all those here who help me through my recent divorce with the advice. As it stands, I'm ...
A: This is a predicament that you will have to solve by a source other than communicating with your ...
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| Eternal Traingle - Mothers Affair | 10/23/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: My mother has been having an affair ever since I can remember. She has told lies to both me and my ...
A: Maybe you should do some self growth work with mindfulness. It is just a series of techniques to ...
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| Suggestions for a Husband on the Mend from Adultery | 10/23/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I have been with my wife for 10 years, 7 of that married. We have 2 daughter who are my greatest ...
A: Your story brings back memories. The way I caught my wife was by putting a recording device in my ...
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| wife and her sex friends | 10/19/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: Good day, here is my problem, i caight my wife sitting in the back yard early in the morning last ...
A: Your question was "What can I do to stop her and get my wife back?" The answer is you can't stop ...
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| Cheating husband | 10/18/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I have been married for 7 years. He has cheated several times in the past. We have been thru ...
A: It is rightfully your decision whether to take him back. He says he wants you back "no matter what ...
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| My wife finally confessed after 25 days. | 10/17/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: Following your advise to me about my cheating wife and after I had applied what you advised me, my ...
A: Yes, the principle still remains. She needs to come clean on everything before you can have a real, ...
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| Adultery | 10/16/2009 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I do not know how to start this other than to say that I am a very hurt and confused woman. I have ...
A: Jamila, I don't know how to put this other than, "IT'S TIME TO END THIS NOW!" He is a cheater and ...
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| should I stay in my marriage? | 10/15/2009 | Laura Giles |
Q: Hmm...where to start? My husband and I were married young (18) and have been married for 17 years. ...
A: Before you leave your marriage, you should try to find out why you are unhappy and see what you can ...
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| Is my mind playing tricks on me? | 10/15/2009 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I have been married for 13 years and have 3 daughters. Over the past year I have really been ...
A: More often than not, if you have been seeing little clues along the way that lead you to believe she ...
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