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| adultry and moving on | 5/9/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I caught my husband 3 yrs ago having an affair. Not sure if it was his first he says so, but not ...
A: He claims that it was his first and only affair. Yet when you mention that the credit card debt ...
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| My mothers affair | 5/8/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: Right after my ninth birthday my mother began having an affair with my father's cousin. I knew ...
A: First, you mention that this issue consumes you, wakes you with bad dreams, etc. What exactly is it ...
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| adultery | 5/8/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I need some real counsel on this issue. I committed adultery recently with an old girlfriend of ...
A: Right now I am doing a series on my radio program about bitterness and unforgiveness. I want you to ...
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| Salvage my 4 months marriage | 5/7/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: I have checked several stores in my area and I don't think I can get a copy of the movie. In the ...
A: Re: continued contact. In my experience, people who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. The Lying ...
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| the affair | 5/7/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband had an affair. I think this is quite common to be honest. That really isn't what is ...
A: Oh, Wendy, but it IS about everything that he'd one to you; the affairs, the lying, the cheating, ...
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| Husbands Infidelity | 5/6/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: About a month ago my husband confessed he had feelings for another woman. My heart was crushed. I ...
A: Re: your questions. You situation is indeed a complicated one. and i agree "this is serious stuff" ...
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| Dealing with the images | 5/4/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: my wife had an affair, how do I deal with the images that I get day in and day out?
A: It's going to take some time for the mental pictures and images to leave your mind. Every once in a ...
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| How do I forgive my husband for cheating and leaving? | 5/3/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband and I had a wonderful relationship. We remained close for our entire relationship. We ...
A: You have every right to be angry at him, b/c this has not only hurt you and cause you pain, he ...
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| Wifes Affair | 5/1/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: My wife left me last August. She had an affair since that April. I was at Fort Benning at the time ...
A: After reading your e-mail, I can only imagine how much turmoil you must be experiencing at this time ...
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| Wife's affair | 5/1/2008 | Danine Manette |
Q: My marriage was awesome up until the birth of our daughter. We had a great courtship, marriage and ...
A: I am so sorry for the pain, frustration and confusion in your life right now. Not only are you ...
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| Drunken Betrayal | 4/30/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: My husband and I are newly married (about a month). We were at a party at our friend’s house. Both ...
A: You restore sanity through time. There is nothing more you can do other than giving it to yourself. ...
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| My wife cheated with another woman | 4/30/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Here's a curve ball for you! I have been looking everywhere for help with my problems but no ...
A: Right now, don't put the cart before the horse and start to plan a divorce. If she's willing to go ...
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| Salvage my 4 months marriage | 4/29/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: I have checked several stores in my area and I don't think I can get a copy of the movie. In the ...
A: sorry you arent able to locate that movie. I know it is available at Target/walmart stores as well ...
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| Salvage my 4 months marriage | 4/28/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: Sorry for bothering you again. Just need one final advice from you on whether I'm moving in the ...
A: I am happy to see you will be testing this experiment. I am curious about hear about the results. ...
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| harmless emails? | 4/25/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I am a married man who had a 3 month affair. Fell madly in love with the other woman. Both of us ...
A: In the end, it's probably easier to just break everything off and be done with it. Since there's no ...
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| Salvage my 4 months marriage | 4/25/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: Sorry for bothering you again. Just need one final advice from you on whether I'm moving in the ...
A: I am glad to know that you are also seeking professional help with your relationship. That's always ...
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| im think im going crazy over being cheated on and staying with her | 4/23/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: everyday events remind me of it. When she cheated that is. My girlfriend cheated on me and I've ...
A: Billy - there are two things that will help you get past this. 1. She must apologize and show ...
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| my wife was unfaithful during our engagement | 4/23/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: My wife had an on again off again affair with her ex last year, before we were married. Despite ...
A: The good word on this one is that you have a decision to make...and that decision is to let go of ...
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| Wife has lost feelings for me but has feelings for someone else | 4/22/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: How do I get my Wifes feelings back for me. We are separated at the moment and she wants space. I ...
A: Mark - Counseling is the first critical step. And don't blame yourself for her mistake. A lack of ...
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| pornography as an issue | 4/21/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I am looking to write an essay about how pornography is an issue and i need three points as my ...
A: Three bad points of pornography are: 1) It's can turn into an addiction just like gambling, ...
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| pornography as an issue | 4/21/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I am looking to write an essay about how pornography is an issue and i need three points as my ...
A: There is a lot of material out there about pornography, pro and con. My personal opinion is that ...
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| alienation of affection | 4/21/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I got drunk and had a one night stand early on in the beginning of our marriage. I told my husband ...
A: All you'd have to do is sue him in civil court for Alienation of Affection. There's only a slim ...
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| cheating husband with pregnant girlfriend | 4/21/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I got married at the young age of 19 and he was 23. He wasn't exactly the nicest person; he has a ...
A: This is an up and down roller coaster ride and you certainly cannot live like this. The stress is ...
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| Wifes affair | 4/21/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: This is a unique situation. My wife and I have been married for 41 years. About a year after ou ...
A: Sam - I understand your pain. It is very important for you to get past this. Your own peace of ...
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| Christian Adultery | 4/17/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: How common is it for adulterer's to justify their relationship? How do they make it right with God? ...
A: I answered your original questions as I read them. Now you are asking if adultery is okay? The ...
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| serial cheater | 4/16/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: How do I go on after finding out he cheater with over 50 women. He has in a band. Married 32 yrs. ...
A: After reading your e-mail, I sat and thought about you and about your situation for a long while. On ...
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| Salvage my 4 months marriage | 4/16/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: Sorry for bothering you again. Just need one final advice from you on whether I'm moving in the ...
A: As usual, your questions are very good. So, let take them one by one: "Regarding shielding your ...
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| Is this hopeles? WHy does SHE want him? | 4/15/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: My spouse & I were together for 23 yrs…most of that time he was incarcerated on different occasions. ...
A: Another good question. Since, I don’t know the situation personally, I can only share some general ...
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| IS THIS HOPELESS??? WHY DOES SHE WANT HIM??? | 4/14/2008 | Brittany Hayes |
Q: My spouse & I were together for 23 yrs…most of that time he was incarcerated on different occasions. ...
A: I am glad you have figured out that this isnt the life for you and are trying to move on. I know it ...
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| Is he cheating? | 4/14/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: In the past i caught my husband on the internet chatting with other women, then he was talking to ...
A: He's lying to you and being very dishonest with you about what he's talking and doing with these ...
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| phone sex affair | 4/10/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: My husband and I have been happily married for 20 years. Last year a client of his began flirting ...
A: you can get past this. And it is very possible (even likely) that he tried this, found it ...
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| How to salvage my 4 months marriage? | 4/10/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: I have just gotten married for 4 months after a 10 year relationship. My wife and I are our first ...
A: This is one of those situations, in which there is so much speculation, suspicions, discrepancies ...
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| How to salvage my 4 months marriage? | 4/9/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: I have just gotten married for 4 months after a 10 year relationship. My wife and I are our first ...
A: I am happy you found the advice useful so far, let's move on to your follow up questions... You ...
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| i did what i promised i would never do | 4/9/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: David, I am 36 yrs old and six months ago committed adultery. The affair was emotional for a few ...
A: Tom - you seem to be well-versed on the Bible so let me ask you this about self-forgiveness. What ...
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| infidelity | 4/8/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost three years and together for 9. It has been an up and ...
A: While there are no guarantees, if your husband has learned his lesson and feels the pain he has ...
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| Preparing to cheat? | 4/8/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband has been calling his gorgeous client when I'm away. The weird thing is that those calls ...
A: He's sure got something to hide alright, otherwise, he wouldn't be doing the stuff he's doing and ...
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| advice | 4/8/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 5 yrs. We met while we were both serving in the military. We ...
A: Your perceptions are right on target. You are exactly describing the behavior of someone who is ...
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| How to salvage my 4 months marriage? | 4/8/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: I have just gotten married for 4 months after a 10 year relationship. My wife and I are our first ...
A: After reading your question, I thought the best way to answer you, would be to break down it into ...
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| Significant other extremely sneaky with only one of his phones | 4/2/2008 | Brittany Hayes |
Q: My boyfriend is sneaky with his phone, Im not allowed to see it because he needs to keep his ...
A: I have been through this situation with my husband (he is 26 & I am 24). We have been together 8 ...
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| Significant other extremely sneaky with one of his phones | 4/2/2008 | David Rhodes |
Q: My boyfriend is sneaky with his phone, Im not allowed to see it because he needs to keep his ...
A: Irene - using "manhood" as an excuse to keep this from you is silly at best. A healthy relationship ...
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