AboutThe Man of Steel Expertise I can answer questions about how to handle your position with a cheating spouse or one that has cheated recently. How to straighten up your life and get back on track one way or the other. My answers will include God because He fills the most vital part in your recovery. They will also include help with the decisions you will have to make to clean things up.
Experience Was cheated on several times by the same woman. We were able to save and keep our marriage, and we will never have this problem again as long as we live.
Publications Purchase my book at www.youngadventure.com and reading this alone will be a major relief to your aching mind.
Education/Credentials Five years of college, 20 years of working in every hands-on field you can imagine, and several technical fields.
Awards and Honors 8 semesters on the president's list in college, 10 arm wrestling championships, many local records in cross country running.
Question After 17 years with him he finally told me that he had more affairs than we had years together. Now he says that he had an addiction to sex. Also he wants us to get back together. We have a 16 year old daughter. I have had an emotional breakdown, overdosed on sleeping pills, and trying to get back on my feet. I feel very vulnerable. I still love him but can't trust myself to do what's best for me and our daughter. He says he won't slip again. Should I trust him?
Answer Dear Star,
I want to let you know that I understand your pain completely. However, to answer your question to the best of my ability, I need more information. How long have you been separated? Is it just since he told you of the affairs? Did you find out some other way and confront him? I will need more detail in order to answer your question. I want to give a genuine honest, helpful answer that you can use in real life. Please fill me in more? Thanks very much! I really want to help. God bless you and your family!
