| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Feelings | 10/12/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a coworker for over a year, he pursued this situation that began ...
A: I don't know why he's still there. That's not really the question you should be asking yourself. The ...
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| Pseudo-marriage | 10/8/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: Let me start off by saying that I married when I was 20, he was 18, after dating only 6 weeks. I ...
A: Divorce is very hard on kids, and your two youngest are at the prime age to be affected by a ...
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| Adultery | 10/8/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: After we had a fight about 4 weeks ago, I was under a lot of pressure having just been laid off and ...
A: Based only on what you've told me, I would guess something is going on. Unless he has some ...
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| adultery | 10/6/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: After finding out recently that my husband of 25 years has had two long term sexual relationships I ...
A: I read your email, and I would like to offer you some insights on how to deal with a hurt that seems ...
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| Cheating wife. | 10/6/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I just recently found out my biggest fear my wife cheated on me!! We are approaching our 5 year ...
A: I have no expertise in law at all. I know they change from state to state, but I am at a total loss ...
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| cheating husband | 10/6/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: married for 13 years with 2 children. Husband has had an affair in past producing child been ...
A: With a man like this, you have a choice of living with the man and his continuing habit, or leaving ...
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| caught my husband cheating accidentally thru emails | 10/4/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: How can I make my husband realize how he badly hurting me with his controlling acts,towards me and ...
A: He probably doesn't really know or even cares how much he hurt you by cheating on you. He is ...
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| Effects of affairs on the other womans child | 10/3/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I should know what they are as my mother was in an affair for 18 years of my life with a married ...
A: The answer to your question depends greatly on the circumstances. In families where there is honesty ...
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| Child Support Issues | 10/3/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: If a woman cheated on her husband and she in return got pregnant a gave birth to a child that is not ...
A: The laws of each state are different. In many places, the husband is considered the legal father of ...
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| Adultery | 10/1/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: How do I move forward and get the images of my wife having sex with another man gone from my mind?
A: Kevin, I wish I could say "You simply go and strangle the other man to death, then kick his head ...
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| I am frustrated, sad, and confused. | 9/29/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: First let me say.. it started about 2 or so years ago. My wife seemingly lost all interest in sex ...
A: Your situation is yet *another* example of why the undiscovered affair is the successful affair, and ...
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| My husband sent dirty text to his ex! How do I get over it!? | 9/29/2008 | Suzie Johnson |
Q: My husband and I split up almost 2 months ago. While he was out living it up on the town I was here ...
A: I read your email, and it moved me to the core. Your circumstances are difficult. The road before ...
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| Cheating | 9/28/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: married her and was posted within an year to a sub district heading it.As per the convention a ...
A: I believe it would be worthwhile to visit the earlier place of posting only if you can meet the ...
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| Married but in love with the other woman | 9/28/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I have been married for 13 years. Been with her for 19. I have a daughter at home and my wife is the ...
A: You are in a tough situation, made worse by the fact that you did what you should never do - confess ...
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| He sent dirty text with his ex! How do I get over it!? | 9/27/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband and I split up almost 2 months ago. While he was out living it up on the town I was here ...
A: That's just it, he can't be trusted at all, no matter what. He's lied to you about things and he ...
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| help | 9/26/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I am 23yo and my husband is 24. We have 2 children(5 and 1). We have been married for 3 years. When ...
A: There are tons of red flags that went up when you said all of this. It seems as though you're very ...
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| help | 9/26/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I am 23yo and my husband is 24. We have 2 children(5 and 1). We have been married for 3 years. When ...
A: I want to let you know that I really understand what you are going through. I feel your pain ...
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| I think My husband had an affair | 9/26/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I beleive my husband had an affair some time ago. It all started when my daughter went to tee ball ...
A: You definitely should do something about this. If that means you get to the bottom of this by ...
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| Cheating | 9/25/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: married her and was posted within an year to a sub district heading it.As per the convention a ...
A: I am not totally clear on your current situation. Is the domestic helper still working in the ...
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| wife has affair in love with him wants a divorce | 9/22/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: My wife of 10 years ( I have been with her for 15 years) is currently having an affair with a ...
A: Yes, there is something that you can do to try to save your marriage, but it's going to be a long ...
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| Kids and adultery | 9/22/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I'm with my girl friend for 2 years now and totally in love. We have been wanting to have a kid for ...
A: This will vary greatly from state to state. In some states, even if a child is born out of wedlock ...
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| Can I trust my wife | 9/22/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Here are the facts. My wife and I have been married for 14 years, all happily until recently. Last ...
A: Let's give her the benefit of doubt and say that nothing physical or emotional did ever go on ...
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| the other woman | 9/21/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I am writing to you as the "other woman". I have had a 6-month affair with a married man. There ...
A: Unfortunately this is a very common scenario that I see in adulterous relationships. The person ...
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| How do I let go of the pain from adultery? | 9/21/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I was single & chaste for 11 years before marrying Terry; I was explicit in describing what I ...
A: I wanted to say thank you for the positive feedback. But also that you can't blame yourself for his ...
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| child from an affair | 9/20/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I assumed that my child born out of an affair was unique. The following is a condensed version of ...
A: Before I can comment on your question, "What do you think,?" I am going to have to ask you to narrow ...
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| i found out my husband cheated | 9/18/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: i recently found out that 8 years ago my husband cheated on me with a stripper he told me it only ...
A: Adultery is the ultimate betrayal in a marriage. It makes you lose every ounce of trust and even ...
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| If it is cheating | 9/17/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I questioned him on this and it led to a big fight with him denying that it ever occured. Well for ...
A: He's insulting your intelligence by lying to you and then trying to get you to believe that he's ...
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| affair | 9/17/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: My husband and I have been happily married for 20 years. last year a client of his began flirting ...
A: It sounds like your husband is a normal man with higher than normal self control and devotion (to ...
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| Ex boyfriend | 9/16/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I started dating my ex in 2003 right before I went to college. I was 19 and he was my first. Our ...
A: I think you are being unreasonable. You can't expect a guy whom you have broken up with to not be ...
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| Ex boyfriend | 9/15/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I started dating my ex in 2003 right before I went to college. I was 19 and he was my first. Our ...
A: You title your email "Adultery", but if I understand your letter correctly, you and your ex had ...
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| What do I do? | 9/14/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 8 years. I've never cheated on her up until last December. ...
A: I want to point something out to you that you have already verified in your question. That is that ...
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| internet adultery | 9/12/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 18 1/2 years now. And there have been several ups and downs ...
A: The account on a singles site is never a good thing when it's a married man doing it. This spells ...
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| Going in circles? | 9/10/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: i wrote to you 2 months ago, about my husband's 2nd affair, and how everyone expected me to just ...
A: I agree with you. In my professional experience, I have never seen a marriage "get better" by ...
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| cheated o while pregnant | 9/9/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: how can i get over the fact that my boyfriend of 11 years cheated on me while we are pregnant with ...
A: He's insulting your intelligence when he denies that anything is going on with this woman. The ...
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| Going in circles? | 9/9/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: i wrote to you 2 months ago, about my husband's 2nd affair, and how everyone expected me to just ...
A: I am sorry that your family is trying to make YOU into the bad guy when clearly it is your husband ...
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| kind of different | 9/7/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: At the end of June, my husband's younger brother died suddenly. My husband was overwhelmed with ...
A: What you describe is pretty common. When there is crisis, it's common for the person with needs to ...
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| Lying husband | 9/7/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: When I ask my husband about phone calls he was making or possibly still making to other women ...
A: What you and I both know is that your husband is lying. This usually indicates that he's not ...
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| I need an advise pls... | 9/6/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: My partner of 5 yrs, whom I have trusted, went out with this woman that he recently met, they ...
A: If there was no sex, then you will know because he will be able to end his relationship with her ...
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| I cheated and I feel awful too | 9/5/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: About 3 months ago my common-law partner found out I was having a sexual affair. I must admit that ...
A: At some point she has to be able to forgive you for your indiscretions that you did when you cheated ...
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| emotional affair | 9/5/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: My Husband & I have been married for 22 years dating for 3. We have 5 children My husband has ...
A: To be honest, my "beat" is more telling people how *not* to get caught engaging in these kinds of ...
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