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| Cheater | 1/6/2009 | girlshrink |
Q: okay so my boyfriend cheated on me, the problem is he cheated on me with his ex after a year i was ...
A: A woman who has been cheated on by multiple partners has something else going on with her. Now I am ...
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| Now What? | 1/5/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I have been married for 7 years now, and have been with my wife for 9 years. We have two beautiful ...
A: If there was no sex and you have been faithful to your wife in that area, then you have a marriage ...
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| Addictions and help | 1/5/2009 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a little over 2 years but dated for 9. I have found his ...
A: What do you want to do with yourself, your life, your marriage? There has to be some idea or ...
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| adultery | 1/5/2009 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: My husband cheated on me with a black woman. She was younger than his youngest daughter. Of course ...
A: Anna, I really want you to find a local pastor and sit down and talk with him/her. You need ...
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| somehow I feel like I decided to cheat | 1/4/2009 | Judith Brandt |
Q: What should I do? Keep sucking it up and resign myself to the married life or do this thing I have ...
A: Having been married to a manic-depressive, I have two words for you: GET OUT. Oh, and DO NOT have ...
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| My husband had an emotional affair. | 1/4/2009 | girlshrink |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 4 1/2 years now. We got married very young. He was only 21 ...
A: Hey J. Listen, there is a lot going on here. You both are very young. Very young. ANd probably ...
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| Now What? | 1/4/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I have been married for 7 years now, and have been with my wife for 9 years. We have two beautiful ...
A: I have the answers you need. I am ready and anxious to help. However, I will need to know if you ...
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| wife having an affair | 1/3/2009 | S. Kessler |
Q: Totally frustrated . I suspected my wife was having an affair . she had become distant emotionally ...
A: This nonsense of her blatantly cheating on you and you accepting it by remaining with her has got to ...
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| Is it possible to fix this? | 1/2/2009 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I've just found out that my wife of almost 7 years has cheated on me 5 times in the last 2 years, ...
A: There are a couple of things here that I can see need clarified. We need to look at these points ...
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| cheating on my wife | 12/30/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I've been very happily married for 5 years now and recently cheated on my wife with a girl i don't ...
A: You may not realize that you have other issues in the marriage. You have to think hard, and delve ...
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| cheating on my wife | 12/29/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I've been very happily married for 5 years now and recently cheated on my wife with a girl i don't ...
A: You cheated for a reason, even if you can't figure out why you did it. The most common reason a ...
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| Pregancy after affair | 12/27/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: My husband of 10 plus years recently had an affair with my former best friend. She and I had stopped ...
A: While I believe almost any marriage can be saved, why would you want this marriage to continue? He ...
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| adultery | 12/24/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I'd like to thank you sincerely for answering my question SO quickly and making me feel better by ...
A: You might want to try explaining to your husband the way this works between two people in a ...
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| husband threating to cheat | 12/24/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: My husband and I have been married four years. He is a police officer/detective. He knows all the ...
A: I will see about getting your name taken out right away. Next time you write if you choose to ...
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| HELP | 12/23/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: I really dont know how to ask for help about this but here it goes. I have been with my fiancer for ...
A: Most men, heck most people, want to be forgiven quickly. That's nothing new. Your husband wants to ...
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| adultery | 12/22/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I recently found out that my husband had an affair with who I THOUGHT was my best friend. He says ...
A: One thing that I hope will take the edge off of your pain is if you realize that for the past ...
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| How to cope? | 12/19/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Kessler, My name is Angela and I'm 20 years old. I have been with my husband for 5 years and ...
A: First off, congrats on the new baby! What a joy it is to experience motherhood (even though you're ...
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| cheating | 12/18/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: should a woman give a man another chance after she found out that her husband has been seeing a ...
A: That woman and that man had problems long before he started seeing that prostitute. They clearly ...
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| wife cheated with friend | 12/17/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: "my wife had a affair with someone that was suppose to be our friend.she knew him before I knew him. ...
A: Normally people send in more information and it doesn't change the answer, but in your case, there ...
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| again | 12/17/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: My question is the following, I am married to a wonderful woman and have two loving kids. I have ...
A: All of this is fun and games until she finds out that you are married. This is one of the reasons ...
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| common law to marriage to infidility to having a child out side of our marriage | 12/16/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I have been with my husband for twenty seven years. We have five children together. Age ranging from ...
A: This is some story. Why on earth would you have two more kids -- or any kids at all, for that matter ...
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| wifes infedelity | 12/16/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: "my wife had a affair with someone that was suppose to be our friend.she knew him before I knew ...
A: Since you know about your wife's infidelity, it's no doubt a good idea to insist that she cut off ...
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| has a mutual friend | 12/16/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: "my wife had a affair with someone that was suppose to be our friend.she knew him before I knew ...
A: This is a case of "where do you draw the line?" The place where you draw the line is right at ...
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| wife cheated with friend | 12/16/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: "my wife had a affair with someone that was suppose to be our friend.she knew him before I knew ...
A: Wow! That's a sticky situation. I normally advise that there be no contact between the two lovers. ...
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| wifes infedelity | 12/16/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: "my wife had a affair with someone that was suppose to be our friend.she knew him before I knew ...
A: I seriously doubt that the mutual friend doesn't know. But stranger things have happened. Even if ...
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| Handling adultery and divorce. | 12/14/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: How do I move on after my wife left me and our 11 yr son. Fifteen months ago she left to pursue a ...
A: Wow. That is an awful lot on your plate. The first thing I would suggest is that you find a human ...
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| again | 12/14/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: My question is the following, I am married to a wonderful woman and have two loving kids. I have ...
A: Do NOT write her back or commit anything to writing on your company email system or anywhere else. ...
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| adultry | 12/13/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: From an christian stand point can you tell me that it is ok to go out and have an affair because you ...
A: Isn't is ironic how ministers and people of the cloth that are supposed to be religious, make ...
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| adultry | 12/13/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I have been married for 5 years and during the whole time my husband whom is an minister keeps ...
A: >>>> even though I have took him back time after time now that he has done it again (cheating) will ...
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| adultry | 12/12/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I have been married for 5 years and during the whole time my husband whom is an minister keeps ...
A: I would be glad to try to give you some answers. What are your questions? God is not "letting" him ...
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| husband threating to cheat | 12/12/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: My husband and I have been married four years. He is a police officer/detective. He knows all the ...
A: I think that your marriage is in serious trouble, and if your husband would not consider some sort ...
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| Am so unhappy | 12/10/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: Well here it goes been married for 35 years. My husband in the last 4 years has written two letters ...
A: I hate to say this because it sounds so cliche, but you married too young. Although I'm sure many ...
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| again | 12/5/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: My question is the following, I am married to a wonderful woman and have two loving kids. I have ...
A: You are asking the impossible. I'm sorry. There is no advice that I can give you that will help ...
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| what do i do? | 12/5/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: "So, to start, the story. It all started about 1 month ago. I had sent a text message from my ...
A: This situation is a little unusual because you are catching it before anything actually "happens." ...
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| what do i do? | 12/5/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: "So, to start, the story. It all started about 1 month ago. I had sent a text message from my ...
A: Your should pay attention to your husband's behavior, which says to me that he's looking for another ...
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| Trust Issues... | 12/4/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: My husband and i have been married for 6 years (together for 10). While we were just dating he ...
A: You are stuck spinning your wheels and the only way you can move forward is to renew your mind to ...
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| What should I do? | 12/4/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I've been married for 7 years, my husband had an affair the 1st time when I was 7 months pregnant ...
A: You are in a situation where you are going to be tested to the very extreme of your ability. This ...
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| again | 12/4/2008 | girlshrink |
Q: My question is the following, I am married to a wonderful woman and have two loving kids. I have ...
A: The biggest issue is that you went to family therapy and not individual therapy. They problem lies ...
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| again | 12/4/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: My question is the following, I am married to a wonderful woman and have two loving kids. I have ...
A: No, don't tell your wife. You shouldn't have told her the first time, as you probably realize now. ...
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| Cheating on husband with a mutual friend - way forward? | 12/3/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: Im 28 years old and I've been married for 4 years (together for 7). My husband and I have not had ...
A: You should do what you want to do. If the guy isn't interested in having a relationship with you ...
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