AboutSuzie Johnson Expertise Author of How to Infidelity-Proof your marriage and Forgiving Infidelity. I will answer your question about Surviving, Overcoming or Healing and Forgiving Infidelity. I deal with all 3 people involved in the unhappy triangle. The Wayward Partner, The Betrayed Partner and The "Other Person". My mission is laser-focus and can be summed up in six words..."To heal is to make happy". Thank you for your question and the opportunity to serve.
Experience 8 1/2 years of private practice and many products sold in 65 countries dealing with infidelity and sexuality for committed couples.
Education/Credentials Master of Ericksonian style of clinical hypnosis and neuro -linguistics.
Expert: Suzie Johnson Date: 4/29/2008 Subject: Salvage my 4 months marriage
Question Hi Suzie,
I have checked several stores in my area and I don't think I can get a copy of the movie. In the case that I can't get a hold of the movie, is there any other ways to carry on this experiment?
I have read some spoilers regarding the movie you recommended and also knowing that the 80/20 rule is about those guys think that they are only able to get 80% from their wives and always have the tendency to look for the other 20% from someone else. So I should be asking her from the perspective that she has the same mentality as those guys in the movie, right?
Thanks and Regards
HH
Answer Dear HH,
sorry you arent able to locate that movie. I know it is available at Target/walmart stores as well as NetFlicks.com in the USA. How ever I unsure about where it would be avaiable in your neck of the woods
Re: Alternatives
Unfortunately, I dont have an alternative movie-therapy suggestion, that matches your situation. The reason that movie would have worked for you was simply because your counsoler has already introduced 80/20 in regards to honesty, etc.
Here's a thought:
How about you enjoy your mini-break with your wife... keep your focus on re-seducing her. Forget for a while the problems at home, forget about the coversations with counselers & experts for a few days. Instead focus on whats in front of you.
Imagine, you are on your honeymoon and treat the time you spend with her as precious. It's my opinion that all things work together for good. So the fact that you arent able to do this experiment at this time, is in divine order.
