| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Cheating Wife | 11/19/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I cheated on my husband. We have been married for 3yrs but together for 7. I recently cheated on ...
A: If your priority is the long-term happiness and strength of your marriage, you will find another ...
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| The ex that never was | 11/17/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3years and my problem is over a girl that i know he fancied in ...
A: I can remember in jr high school when I was soooo incredibly in love (or so I thought) with this guy ...
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| Trying to Cope | 11/17/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: My wife and I have been married 16 years and together 19. I am a consultant and travel a lot and I ...
A: After what my wife did, if these things were happening in our relationship, she realizes our ...
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| cheating | 11/17/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: i have been with my boyfriend about a year now, except at around about 5 months he got really drunk ...
A: Since he did this when he was drinking, that should be a reason for him to stop drinking in excess ...
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| Why did my husband cheat? | 11/16/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I am trying to come up with reasons why my husband cheated and I just don't get it. I mean I try to ...
A: In my own case I was supporting the household the way it sounds like you are, and I was also fixing ...
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| alcohol/cheating | 11/16/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband is an alcoholic and has been in control for a few years. Recently he began drinking yet ...
A: You have got to stop enabling him and giving into him by bailing him out when he gets himself into ...
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| old feelings | 11/10/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married for 17 years, the first 2 years my husband was in the military and gone allot, ...
A: That doesn't mean that you haven't fully forgiven him. But yes, you just need to learn to have ...
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| old feelings | 11/9/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married for 17 years, the first 2 years my husband was in the military and gone allot, ...
A: You have to get to a point where you can fully begin to forgive him. Forgiveness is the key here. ...
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| Is it cheating? | 11/9/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I was in a physically and emotionally abusive marriage for close to four years. I finally left him ...
A: Morally speaking, yes, it's still cheating (even if you didn't sleep with him but were emotionally ...
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| No | 11/9/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I have been with my husband since I was 16. We bought a house when I was 19 and married when I was ...
A: You did indeed marry too early, and took on too many responsibilities at a young age. Now you're ...
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| my husband cheated on me | 11/8/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: me and my husband have been together for 7 yrs merried for 6 months when we were young we would ...
A: >>> my question is should i beleave him You should believe what your eyes tell you. Your husband ...
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| Non Sub wife married to Dom husband | 11/6/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I just learned that my husband of 8 years, age 66, has been cheating on me for sometime playing ...
A: You can certainly try counseling. But his interests and yours have apparently diverged to the point ...
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| (the begining to my question) | 11/5/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I sent you a question and the first paragraph or two was missing..... here it is... I have been ...
A: I volunteer in 4 different categories, and the second half of your question went in the "question of ...
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| Creating a new foundation | 11/4/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 6 years. We were dating a 2 months before I ...
A: Forgiveness is a process, it's not always easy to forgive someone when they've done something so ...
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| Wife cheated while pregnant with 1st, pregnant by lover with 2nd child!! | 11/3/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I have no idea how to deal with this. After finding text messages last year on my wife's cell phone ...
A: Your situation is similar to mine, only when my wife cheated there were mutual friends who were ...
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| I consider it cheating, he considers it "friendly talk" | 11/2/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Some background first. We have been together for almost 6 years & just got married this year. We ...
A: You certainly do have a right to feel this way. He's betraying you and then lying to you about ...
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| Did I over-react? | 11/2/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: My girlfriend (and would-be fiance) went out with a guy friend early in our relationship. She chose ...
A: No, Anthony. You did not overreact. No, I would not advise you to consider taking her back. This ...
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| Cheating spouse has outside kids | 10/31/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I recently found out my husband of 18 years has two kids by a woman ages 6 and 4 months. I dont want ...
A: I wish it was your husband asking me these questions, because it's his responsibility to do right by ...
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| Creating a new foundation | 10/30/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 6 years. We were dating a 2 months before I ...
A: The key to moving on and getting past all this hurt, etc is to forgive him. Just b/c you forgive ...
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| Cheating spouse has outside kids | 10/30/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: I recently found out my husband of 18 years has two kids by a woman ages 6 and 4 months. I dont want ...
A: I'm afraid you have asked this question of a religious man who believes killing unborn children is ...
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| Adultry and conception | 10/30/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I was dating a married woman and she conceived twins while she was married.Now she is claiming the ...
A: Yes, in many states there are laws that are in place to protect children in instances such as this ...
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| Wife had long affair.... Can I stay? | 10/29/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My wife had an affair with her boss lasting 1 and a half years. They had worked together almost as ...
A: I'm going to copy and paste your questions here, and then put my answers below them, for quicker and ...
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| Husband's ex-girlfriend/best friend | 10/27/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I will have to give you some details first. My husband & I have only been married for a couple ...
A: If you have only been married a couple of months, get an annulment, get your son out of there before ...
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| Getting over what I have done | 10/27/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am a 42 yr old woman...who was married for 15 years to a wonderful man and had three beautiful ...
A: Your follow up email explains a lot. You're not crazy. You are actually a typical mom in a blended ...
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| Getting over what I have done | 10/26/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am a 42 yr old woman...who was married for 15 years to a wonderful man and had three beautiful ...
A: The first thing I would advise is not to make any major changes in your life. No sports cars, ...
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| I hurt so bad, my husband had an affair | 10/25/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband of 7 years works 3-4 nights a week. I'm 33 and Bill is 55. We have two girls ages 15 and ...
A: If he's so committed to you and wants to salvage this marriage, then perhaps he should try finding ...
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| i cheated on my husband while he is deployed | 10/25/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: This is very hard for me to even talk about but I really need some answers and I need some kind of ...
A: I apologize for taking so long to respond. I hope you will not rate me low for timeliness, my ...
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| From marriage, to adultery, to outside child | 10/25/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I have been married for 2 yrs and separated for 1 yr. I have children prior to my husband and ...
A: Why on earth do you want this man back? That he is a momma's boy alone should have been a red flag ...
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| Childs Question About Affair | 10/24/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: My ex and i have been divorced now for around 4 months. She has had 2 affairs during our marriage. ...
A: I appreciate your desire to be honest with your 13 year old daughter, but honestly does not compel ...
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| Getting over what I have done | 10/24/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: I am a 42 yr old woman...who was married for 15 years to a wonderful man and had three beautiful ...
A: Did you notice how you repeated "before I knew it..." Things don't happen like that. There was a ...
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| lost | 10/23/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I have such a messed up situation!I've been married for around 18 yrs. my husband and I went to meet ...
A: If you and your husband feel the same way about his family, then just cut ties with them. What is ...
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| cheating father | 10/23/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Recently I discovered that my father is cheating, my mom confronted him and he admitted cheating ...
A: You mom has a right to know that your father is cheating on her once again. You should try and sit ...
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| lost | 10/22/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: I have such a messed up situation!I've been married for around 18 yrs. my husband and I went to meet ...
A: Do you know for a fact that something happened? In these cases, perception is reality for the most ...
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| flirting or somrthing happened | 10/22/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: just last month i went through my boy friends phone and found text messages from an exchange student ...
A: Why are you going through your boyfriend's text messages? First, if anyone is not to be trusted in ...
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| pregnant after an affair | 10/21/2008 | Laura Giles |
Q: my husband has cheated on me several times claiming that the 12 years of marriage were crappy. due ...
A: Yes, you do need help to continue forward. I would suggest that you go here: ...
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| another affair | 10/20/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: My wife and I have been married 15 Years. During those years my wife has had 4 affairs. She tries ...
A: I was married to a manic-depressive and suffered through all the misery that such a situation ...
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| wife cheated on me | 10/20/2008 | The Man of Steel |
Q: My wife and I were at a wedding she had to much to drink and was. flirting inappropriately with a ...
A: I believe the two of you have a very good chance of having a good marriage. It appears you may have ...
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| forgiveness AGAIN or walk away? | 10/20/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I read that forgiveness is the only way yo handle infidelity. My husband had an affair 10 years ...
A: I sincerely appreciate it. And, yes, you are more than welcome to post a follow up reply/question ...
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| im confused | 10/19/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: i have cheated on my wife with 5 different women in the past year im starting to really care for the ...
A: Does your wife know that you've been unfaithful to her during the last year? If not, then you have ...
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| Having an affair with a family member | 10/18/2008 | Judith Brandt |
Q: OK, I probably got your attention on this one and hope it won't gross you out. First off, I've been ...
A: This situation is less gross than pathetic. Being so much older than your nephew, it was up to you ...
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