AboutPastor Kimberly Lemler Expertise As an Ordained Minister, Life Coach, and Pastoral Counselor, I can help you with questions related to adultery. I was a victim of adultery in my first marriage so I understand deeply the feelings that one has in this situation. How we choose to respond to the situation is vital in our recovery. Letting go of bitterness and unforgiveness is key, and I can teach you how to do that. I have been happily remarried for 16 years.
Outside of AllExperts I can be reached at:
Walk By Faith Counseling Center
www.GodsHealingPower.org
Experience I have personal experience with a husband who committed adultery and have counseled people in this area. I have a weekly radio broadcast and also do street ministry, phone ministry,in-office ministry, e-mail ministry and have ministered on a worldwide prayerline. I am a life coach as well.
Publications Teaching CD's available on our website, GodsHealingPower.org. Look for several of our books to be published and on the website.
Education/Credentials I am a former school teacher, a graduate of Indiana University, 1984. I have received biblical instruction at Victory Bible Institute and am currently working on a PhD.
Question Hi
I'm a Christian woman
my husband of 25 years has cheated 2 times before our marriage and 5 times during our marriage. Last time was 2 years ago, I only new of 1 other one till then. he had confessed supposedly to everything. I was devastated and can't seem to completely shake it, I get so depressed at times. He is a totally different man these past 2 years. He has converted from Judaism to Christianity and has been the most affectionate and considerate husband, there's nothing I can't have for the asking. I still feel a lot of anger and hurt though. I can't get over the fact that he had lied and cheated all those years. I don't know if he really has changed. I have a lot of doubts and if I had the financial means I'm sure I would divorce him. I feel like my life is a charade. Am I living to much in the past? as our pastor says, I should forgive and forget. Is my gut trying to tell me something? I'm really confused still, after 2 years
confused and depressed
Answer Hi Carol,
I'm a little confused and perhaps you could write back and give more clarity to your situation. You say that he is a different man, and then you go on to say that you don't know if he has really changed. I need to have more details about what is going on in your marriage so that I can help you...
Write back...
Pastor Kim
God's Healing Power Radio Ministry
GodsHealingPower.org
