AboutJudith Brandt Expertise I can answer questions regarding how to cheat and get away with it. I also have an extensive understanding of why people marry in the first place, and where the urge to cheat comes from. Love is an emotion programmed to self-destruct.
Experience Ten years 'in the field', on both sides of the adultery fence. My book THE 50-MILE RULE: Your Guide to Infidelity and Extra-marital Etiquette will be coming out in June, 2002 from Ten Speed Press.
Education/Credentials I have an MBA and an MA in Education
Expert: Judith Brandt Date: 6/21/2008 Subject: Is My Wife Cheating ?
Question My wife and her girlfriend who is also married, attend a Gym together. A few weeks ago my wifes girlfriend sent my wife a text message which i happened to see. The message said...." James at the Gym has asked me out for lunch. Trust mine to be a 50 year old" Could this be proof that my wife and her friend are having liasons with men they meet at the gym?
Answer Hi there:
It could be evidence along those lines. On the other hand, it could be your wife's girlfriend's reaction to getting hit on by some old dude, as in "can you imagine?" Every woman has a story like that. And text messages aren't exactly known for their precision. Too many shortcuts and abbreviations because it takes too long to spell things out.
