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Richard Smith wrote at 2007-06-04 23:29:17

it is silly to think you are going to stop just like that.  That would have happened after the first time. No you two have lit a fire and it will burnout in it's own time. The answer is don't get caught. I don't understand why you think you will be caught. This is your father -in-law as long as you act normal until you are behind close doors.your husband and his wife shouldn't find out.

rdprdp39 wrote at 2008-04-28 18:03:17
Great hot sex and amplea amounts of it are hard to find. I'm married and my sex drive has gone through the roof, my wifes had decreased. When I can find another lover I will cheat, sex is too important to me, why live without it?

Here's what you ought to do, unless you have already made a decision;

1. Are you sure you won't get pregnant from him?

2. Where are you having sex with him. Your hubby can come home early, anytime! Leave from work sick, whatever.

3. Who is seeing you with him? There are people everywhere, even when you don't think so.

4. Don't be writting checks or making electronic purchases. Throw out all reciepts, including fast food. They document where and when we have been.

baba wrote at 2009-06-11 20:37:33

I think you are crazy female.Do you think that you will continue with your Husband for the future..?hahaaaaaa.I am afried of you...realy...please divorce with in a short period of time.Because your father in-law will tell him or he may observe you and you will at risk.God will Bless him(your husband).You are stupied.........

latika wrote at 2009-11-22 01:40:16

I think you should tell your husband honestly. He may initially be annoyed but things will work out for sure, dont worry. Actually you know it is a sin and a combined feeling of sex pleasure and black mail is letting you go this way. If you are caught things will be worse.

john wrote at 2010-08-29 17:38:45
I think your need counseling your are mentally messed up! How would you feel if your huband was banging your mom? Well that's kind of a dumb ? Cause u probably wouldn't care! What the heck is wrong with people these days?

seethay;ya wrote at 2010-10-30 10:30:29
pls avoid your father in law,it will not heartbreak you mother-in-law, but your husband. and husband is the only person whom you can share personal feelings, even you can tell him about the father in law is trying to deceive you, he will understand, At first he may slap you,kick you, but after a week he will come to you,because you are part of his life. Give first preference for LOVE and not SEX,Tell you are mad about SEX and he will change for you to satisfy more...

fred wrote at 2010-12-28 16:39:09
You are having great sex! Is it not true as your Father in law said, that you need it? Don't you crave the good sex that he is giving you? It is proper for you to submit your body to the master of the family! Your father in law is teaching you what good sex is all about. It sounds as if he should be teaching his son what good sex really is also.

sara wrote at 2011-02-01 23:16:18
Its best to stop, but would your father in-law be ok to stop. Slowly stop, dont want him to be forceful and hurt you like rape even know you like it. Like breaking up with a boyfriend best to slowly. & if stops totally w/o problem then awesome.  

FredA wrote at 2014-01-13 20:30:04
While  it is risky, I do believe that you should contine

to enjoy time with you F-I-L.  


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I can answer questions regarding how to cheat and get away with it. I also have an extensive understanding of why people marry in the first place, and where the urge to cheat comes from. Love is an emotion programmed to self-destruct.


Ten years 'in the field', on both sides of the adultery fence. My book THE 50-MILE RULE: Your Guide to Infidelity and Extra-marital Etiquette will be coming out in June, 2002 from Ten Speed Press.

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