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About Pastor Kimberly Lemler
Expertise
As an Ordained Minister, Life Coach, and Pastoral Counselor, I can help you with questions related to adultery. I was a victim of adultery in my first marriage so I understand deeply the feelings that one has in this situation. How we choose to respond to the situation is vital in our recovery. Letting go of bitterness and unforgiveness is key, and I can teach you how to do that. I have been happily remarried for 16 years.

Outside of AllExperts I can be reached at: Walk By Faith Counseling Center www.GodsHealingPower.org

Experience
I have personal experience with a husband who committed adultery and have counseled people in this area. I have a weekly radio broadcast and also do street ministry, phone ministry,in-office ministry, e-mail ministry and have ministered on a worldwide prayerline. I am a life coach as well.

Publications
Teaching CD's available on our website, GodsHealingPower.org. Look for several of our books to be published and on the website.

Education/Credentials
I am a former school teacher, a graduate of Indiana University, 1984. I have received biblical instruction at Victory Bible Institute and am currently working on a PhD.

You are here: Experts > People/Relationships > Marriage > Adultery > My husband was talking to another woman!

Topic: Adultery

Expert: Pastor Kimberly Lemler
Date: 1/21/2007
Subject: My husband was talking to another woman!

Question
What should I do,I looked through my husbands phone because I had a feeling that he was talking to someone else.My fears were confirmed he is.He said he would stop calling her but I just don't know what to do.My feeling are hurt and my heart is crushed.I told him I was going to leave and take my 2yr.old son with me.That's when he broke out in tears and promised that he wouldn't call her anymore.This is the first time that he has ever done this.Our relationship has always been an open one.Please help!!Thanks!!!

Answer
Hi Christy,

Thanks so much for writing. When you say he was talking to this woman, was this "friend" talk or "girlfriend" talk? Is he having some sort of affair with her? Has he been meeting with her? What kind of details have you been able to get out of him and do you know who this woman is?

I can give you better advice if I know some more details...

In His Service,
Rev. Lemler

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