| Subject | Date Asked |
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| HUSBAND CHEATING VIA MOBILE PHONE | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS. OUR MARRIAGE HAS HAD IT'S UP'S AND DOWN'S, AS ALL MARRIAGES, I ...
A: Your husband is way out of line and you need to be really strong with him in telling him that he ...
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| HELP | 7/4/2008 |
Q: i found out text messages exchanges between my wife and her former boss such as "i want to make luv ...
A: That's 3 weeks away. Are you sure you want to hold on until then? Yes, I would continue to check up ...
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| Wondering if my marriage is falling apart? | 7/3/2008 |
Q: First of i don't think my husband is attracted to me anymore he dont look at me like he use to ...
A: How old is your husband? Besides looking at other women, do you suspect that he is cheating when he ...
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| how do i have the faith? | 7/2/2008 |
Q: my husband has continued to lie and cheat. I finally thought I was ready to proceed with divorce ...
A: Beana, I really need more information about your situation to give you an answer. Please write ...
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| HELP | 6/27/2008 |
Q: i found out text messages exchanges between my wife and her former boss such as "i want to make luv ...
A: You need to confront her as soon as possible. Sit her down and tell her that you know. And that you ...
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| adultery | 6/19/2008 |
Q: My husband cheated on me with a black woman. She was younger than his youngest daughter. Of course ...
A: Let me first say that YOU ARE VALUABLE!! You have no idea of your worth. You are God's creation and ...
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| Cheating Wife | 6/11/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been going out for 9.5 years and been married for the last 2.5 years. We meet ...
A: The attraction to this other man is going to be a strong pull for her and it doesn't sound as if she ...
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| Help with my marriage | 6/10/2008 |
Q: 8 plus years ago I committed adultery and 16 months back I confessed my sins to my wife, We are ...
A: I don't recommend anyone unless I know them because there are so many spiritual issues involved and ...
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| marital sexual problems | 6/3/2008 |
Q: Yes, I am a Christian. I've been married for 40 years; two grown children. Despite my asking, ...
A: You only have 2 options...divorce or celibacy. There is no other option. Adultery is adultery and I ...
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| adultery | 5/30/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 17+ yrs , my husband left with a married woman 3 months ago , what are the ...
A: Ann, Some people are just liars through and through. They have told lies for so long that it's ...
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| Wife having affair & moving out asking me to bear with her | 5/22/2008 |
Q: I was in a motorcycle accident four years ago resulting in the loss of use of my left arm and severe ...
A: ..this is a follow-up. The only counselors I know in Florida are in St. Pete. They are the pastors ...
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| Adultry | 5/17/2008 |
Q: I'm a Christian woman my husband of 25 years has cheated 2 times before our marriage and 5 times ...
A: I'm a little confused and perhaps you could write back and give more clarity to your situation. You ...
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| Help with my marriage | 5/13/2008 |
Q: 8 plus years ago I committed adultery and 16 months back I confessed my sins to my wife, We are ...
A: Adultery is devastating to a wife. You have no idea how this hurts. It hurt me so much that I got ...
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| adultery | 5/8/2008 |
Q: I need some real counsel on this issue. I committed adultery recently with an old girlfriend of ...
A: Right now I am doing a series on my radio program about bitterness and unforgiveness. I want you to ...
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| my wife was unfaithful during our engagement | 4/23/2008 |
Q: My wife had an on again off again affair with her ex last year, before we were married. Despite ...
A: The good word on this one is that you have a decision to make...and that decision is to let go of ...
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| cheating husband with pregnant girlfriend | 4/21/2008 |
Q: I got married at the young age of 19 and he was 23. He wasn't exactly the nicest person; he has a ...
A: This is an up and down roller coaster ride and you certainly cannot live like this. The stress is ...
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| Christian Adultery | 4/17/2008 |
Q: How common is it for adulterer's to justify their relationship? How do they make it right with God? ...
A: I answered your original questions as I read them. Now you are asking if adultery is okay? The ...
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| Adultery led to female becoming pregnant | 3/14/2008 |
Q: I've already been through quite a bit with my husband of 4 years. He cheated on me before we were ...
A: First of all, I think you need to take a second thought about staying with this man. You say that he ...
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| Sex Before Marraige | 2/2/2008 |
Q: I need to ask a question for my friend. He is 33 years old, Muslim, lives in Pakistan. He fell in ...
A: The Koran and the Bible are very different. I do know that in some Muslims countries women who have ...
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| Repeated Adultry | 2/1/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 19 years. We both came from good Christian families (my ...
A: I have been in a situation like this with a first husband, so I understand what you are going ...
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| adultry | 1/30/2008 |
Q: i was caught 3-4 month's ago cheating with a woman that was basically a groupy. i had kept in just ...
A: What happens when we walk in sin is that we reap the consequences of it, and others around us reap ...
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| adultry | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I don't mean to be a pest, but I have no one to turn to. I appreciate your recent frankness because ...
A: No problem, that's why I am here. Emotions are a powerful thing and we can allow our emotions to ...
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| adultery | 1/19/2008 |
Q: I wrote to someone a week ago and never heard back. I started looking around, my first time here, ...
A: The Bible says that we have all fallen short of the glory of God....we all sin. So when we do , we ...
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| adultery | 1/18/2008 |
Q: I wrote to someone a week ago and never heard back. I started looking around, my first time here, ...
A: Did he just stop seeing you all of the sudden and start in with this new girl? Why do you say that ...
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| Cheating Wife | 1/16/2008 |
Q: I met my current wife (Nikki) 2 years ago and I fell madly in love with her from the moment I laid ...
A: I do have to say that you must love this woman dearly. When someone cares this deeply for someone, ...
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| Cheating Wife | 1/14/2008 |
Q: I met my current wife (Nikki) 2 years ago and I fell madly in love with her from the moment I laid ...
A: It really helps to get a big picture of the circumstances. What I do want to ask you is about your ...
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| Can I forgive | 1/9/2008 |
Q: Husband cheated countless times we broke up for a year and now he wants to reconcile our marriage. ...
A: What you need to do is to set the ground rules for the marriage. If he really wants this marriage to ...
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| adultery | 12/29/2007 |
Q: i went to a local church and found out the preacher is the boyfriend of a co-worker. i know she's ...
A: Not an easy situation, to say the least. Are you absolutely certain that these two are having an ...
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| Emotional affair | 12/19/2007 |
Q: I'm wanting to know a way to end a mostly emotional affair. I am 38 married and work with a man ...
A: First, let me say that the age gap is way too large, even if he were not married. I don't see very ...
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| Long Ago Affair | 12/14/2007 |
Q: My wife had a nine month long affair I discovered 30 years ago and it caused a crisis that we met ...
A: Can you share with me the reasons she had for having the affair? If there is any more you can add to ...
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| sin of adultery | 12/5/2007 |
Q: i have committed this sin. i am a catholic. i am also well read in the bible. after my divorce, ...
A: First I would like to say that what the Catholics believe about salvation is polar opposite as to ...
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| Emotionally Infidelity | 12/1/2007 |
Q: My husband had an emotional affair with my best friend. He's says that it was a friendship. I read ...
A: God designed marriage to be such that the husband is supposed to guide the way a marriage goes. It ...
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| Should I stay or should I go | 11/30/2007 |
Q: This is so hard for me to do, but I have to talk to someone before I lost my mind. My husband and I ...
A: I am so sorry. I know how much it hurts from my own personal experience. So I am can empathize with ...
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| Please help - I'm the "other woman" and in love with a married man | 11/30/2007 |
Q: I guess this question may be a bit unusual, as all of the postings I've read have dealt with people ...
A: I do not discount your feelings because I know they are real. They are out of context, but they are ...
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| Infidelity | 11/27/2007 |
Q: I am a forty six years old married woman with two teenagers. I had been married for 22 years. ...
A: This is not an easy situation for you. I know the pain and frustration myself. Most men lie through ...
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| My Brother | 11/27/2007 |
Q: Believe it or not, this situation has ZERO to do directly with me. But, from my studies of the ...
A: To The Aunt, Thank you for writing. I am going to have to knock the wind out of your sails a ...
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| marriage advice | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I have been married 15yrs. My husband was working out of town and met another women in a bar who ...
A: Let's see...your husband is on drugs, he hits you, he is living with another woman in adultery, he ...
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| adultery | 10/17/2007 |
Q: my name is Amy and I have a husband that I know has cheated on me several times but will lie to no ...
A: I would love to tell you that this will all turn around, but it would take God to shake him up. I ...
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| adultry | 10/10/2007 |
Q: First let me say I am a Christian and want to live as God would have me to. I am having a really ...
A: Your husband sounds like a habitual offender. He cannot be trusted. If he really wants your ...
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| How to accepted the on going affairs | 10/9/2007 |
Q: How do I accept the on going affairs that my husband keeps having. He doesn't know that I know that ...
A: You have some major issues going on in your marriage. How long have you been married? Why haven't ...
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| My soon to be ex wife | 9/3/2007 |
Q: My ex and I have been going through on this divorce!! I'm not wanting too. I wasn't the best ...
A: I don't really know too much about your situation in depth, so it's hard for me to comment. I do ...
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| adultery | 9/1/2007 |
Q: I had sex with my wifes brothers wife I have never done anything else in our marriage wrong ...
A: Good Morning, The Bible is clear about God withholding his wrath and judgment during this ...
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| Adultery or Not? | 8/28/2007 |
Q: I have a female friend who has been divorced now for some 14 years. Her ex-husband was physically ...
A: If the man is still married, this is adultery. Since they are sleeping together and not married, ...
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| cheating husband | 8/23/2007 |
Q: I recently found out my husband had been cheating on me for the third time ( that i know of) the ...
A: I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know how badly it hurts. I have been there myself.. ...
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| cheating from my wife | 8/21/2007 |
Q: I have been an unfaithful husband, and I have been cheating so many times and my wife does not know ...
A: I am glad that you are taking some steps to try to overcome this problem. I say the word "problem" , ...
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| adultery | 8/8/2007 |
Q: rev. lemler, my ex married the woman that he cheated with. he told me he did this to hurt me for ...
A: This is an excellent question. I am sorry that you went through such a hard time in this situation. ...
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| Adultery/love triangle... | 7/31/2007 |
Q: I recently went on a vacation with my exhusband and 3 kids. We have been divorced for 3 years, and ...
A: You are in a difficult position here with no easy answers. Someone is going to get hurt, either way ...
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| Should I confess to spouse? | 7/23/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 11 years and have a daughter who is almost 3 years old now. I am a strong ...
A: This is one that does not have an easy answer and I certainly cannot make this decision for you. ...
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| step daughter physically attacked my daughter | 7/23/2007 |
Q: Rev. Kim, I have e-mailed you not long ago about my future step-daughter. Well, things finally went ...
A: Jesse is the source of all of these troubles. She needs help , now. Those children need to be taken ...
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| my husband commited adultery | 7/19/2007 |
Q: how do i forgive. i don't know if this was his first time, but it is the first time that i got proof ...
A: I have been where you are at right now...and I know the feelings of betrayal, anger, bitterness and ...
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| adult soon to be step daughter | 7/18/2007 |
Q: Please someone help, My fiance has two children which are all ready grown and have families of ...
A: You have a daughter to think about and she is your first priority. So staying away from Jesse is ...
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| adult soon to be step daughter | 7/17/2007 |
Q: Please someone help, My fiance has two children which are all ready grown and have families of ...
A: This is not an easy situation for everyone involved. As long as Jesse continues this behavior, there ...
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| my husband cheated with consequences | 7/11/2007 |
Q: what do you do when you discover that your husband 7 years was cheating on you with a family ...
A: I'm so sorry for your pain and these terrible circumstances. What did he test positive for??? ...
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| How to divorce your exhusband emotionally | 7/3/2007 |
Q: I am recently divorced from my exhusband who cheated, used drugs, and abandoned my daughter and I. ...
A: Welcome to the world... I cannot tell you how many people go through what you are going through now. ...
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| phone sex:legally adultery or sexual deviant behavior | 6/28/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for a year and I am six months pregnant. We have fought ...
A: Your husband has no clue what it means to be a real man. I am so sad for you. He needs a good kick ...
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| cheating pastor | 6/1/2007 |
Q: This is the second time that I know of my pastor cheating. He is cheating with my friend from the ...
A: You are a watchman and I commend you for this. We are to hold our pastors accountable. The answer ...
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| Rebuild | 5/30/2007 |
Q: .. I dont know where to begin because my situation is a mess. I am in a process of getting a ...
A: Well, this does seem to be a tangled mess, as you say. Let me help you untangle it. First, I ...
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| Cheating Husband | 5/10/2007 |
Q: I have been married to a pastor for alittle over 2 years. I have discovered that he has been ...
A: This is an easy one to answer. Read Matthew 18:15-18. If I were you, I would be out the door before ...
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| is erotic massage cheating | 4/25/2007 |
Q: While my boyfriend of one year was away on a business trip i snooped through his things and found 2 ...
A: I don't have a lot of information to go on, but I will tell you what I think from reading what you ...
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| Embarrased, Ashamed, and Trying to Forgive | 4/5/2007 |
Q: My husband of almost 8 years has always had affairs. I was raised in church and taught that you ...
A: Without hesitation, this is clearly a case of a man treating his wife like a doormat. He has been ...
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| Two Adulterers | 3/28/2007 |
Q: I am married and have been committing adultery with a woman that is also married and committing ...
A: Well that was a lot to take in! I think I pretty much follow your story. I don't think I really ...
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| How do I get past this? | 3/28/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 years, together for a total of 7. We have had some ...
A: This whole thing sounds so fishy to me. It really sounds like there is some kind of affair going on, ...
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| I'm About to Get Married, But... | 3/28/2007 |
Q: I'm supposed to be getting married next week, but I am hesitant because just last night some girl ...
A: You are in a tough position right now because you are pregnant with this man's child. It is ...
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| Two Adulterers | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I am married and have been committing adultery with a woman that is also married and committing ...
A: . Thank you so much for writing. Sin always separates us from God. When we sin, we feel we want to ...
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| hopeless caused by affair | 3/23/2007 |
Q: My husband committed adultery 5 years ago, and he has just admitted it last July. The only reason ...
A: I want you to find a different doctor RIGHT AWAY. The side effects of these drugs are not good, and ...
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| hopeless caused by affair | 3/23/2007 |
Q: My husband committed adultery 5 years ago, and he has just admitted it last July. The only reason ...
A: I believe I can help you. I do want to know the rest of the story first before I go into detail with ...
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| adultry of the heart | 3/8/2007 |
Q: .. its me again... I think you should know why I understand my wife's reluctance to forgive me so ...
A: I think you are right when you say that statistic is higher. With all the "in your face" photos and ...
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| adultry of the heart | 3/7/2007 |
Q: . its Ron. Thank you for you quick response. I really appreciate the fact that you have such a non ...
A: A woman's memory about things is long...she really needs to seek help in overcoming this. What I ...
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| Followup to question about your opinion about adultry. | 3/6/2007 |
Q: . its me again. I was asking you about betrayal of the heart vrs the physical act of adultry. I also ...
A: I am so happy that you have someone to whom you can be accountable. This is great. This area is such ...
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| adultery | 3/5/2007 |
Q: My husband has been incarcerated since May 8, 2004, I have been tormented by him this entire time. ...
A: My question to you is this: Do you want to stay with a man who is in jail (for how long? and what ...
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| Is my husband cheating on me? | 3/2/2007 |
Q: I have a feeling my husband is cheating, but I am not sure. He text messages a lot and he erases ...
A: If you have a feeling that he is cheating, he probably is. Women seem to have a good intuition about ...
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| CHEATING HUSBAND | 2/4/2007 |
Q: REV. LEMLER, I JUST WANT TO KNOW THAT WHEN CAN I START TO TRUST MY HUSBAND AFTER HE CHEATED ON ME? ...
A: I am happy to hear that your husband has agreed to see a counselor. This is a good sign. Don't ...
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| help! | 1/25/2007 |
Q: My husband has been caught many times online and such watching or viewing porn. i have told him how ...
A: Usually when someone is caught doing something they shouldn't, they deny it and then get very ...
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| My husband was talking to another woman! | 1/22/2007 |
Q: Well when I confronted him he said he's talked to her about three times only.When I was gathering my ...
A: I know how hurt you are. It hurts deeply to have a husband look another woman's way. It really is a ...
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| My husband was talking to another woman! | 1/21/2007 |
Q: What should I do,I looked through my husbands phone because I had a feeling that he was talking to ...
A: When you say he was talking to this woman, was this "friend" talk or "girlfriend" talk? Is he having ...
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| Adultery (I commited it) | 1/16/2007 |
Q: Today, I just betrayed my husband, not even 30 minutes ago, and that is what made me look up this ...
A: . You made me a bit dizzy reading this...what a tangled web!!! First of all, my first concern is ...
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| I have a deep gut feeling that my husband is cheating on me with ex wife! | 1/14/2007 |
Q: Here's the problem with getting his phone records. He works with the Law and he has a gov't issued ...
A: If you have a gut feeling, then more times than not, you would probably be right. Outside of hiring ...
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| Pain in My Heart | 1/10/2007 |
Q: My husband & I have been married for 10 yrs. We were having problems in our marriage, just a lot of ...
A: I know the pain is very strong right now. I'd say that if your husband is crying and wants to make ...
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| Adultery | 1/3/2007 |
Q: I just found out that my husband had an affair that went on for 13 months. It was with his ...
A: I surely know what you are going through because my first husband was having an affair with his ...
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| I have a deep gut feeling that my husband is cheating on me with ex wife! | 1/1/2007 |
Q: We have been married for 3 years and we dated for 3 years.It has been a rocky marriage. HE won't ...
A: If you can somehow get the cell phone bill sent to you e-mail, you could see the calls made on it. ...
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| I have a deep gut feeling that my husband is cheating on me with ex wife! | 1/1/2007 |
Q: We have been married for 3 years and we dated for 3 years.It has been a rocky marriage. HE won't ...
A: Happy New Year! Thank you so much for writing to ask a question. I really feel for you because I ...
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| Getting Out | 12/31/2006 |
Q: I am with a guy who is most of the time really good to me. However, he is the kind who thinks VERY ...
A: You asked for my advice so I am going to give it to you, and I won't beat around the bush. ...
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