AboutPastor Kimberly Lemler Expertise As an Ordained Minister, Life Coach, and Pastoral Counselor, I can help you with questions related to adultery. I was a victim of adultery in my first marriage so I understand deeply the feelings that one has in this situation. How we choose to respond to the situation is vital in our recovery. Letting go of bitterness and unforgiveness is key, and I can teach you how to do that. I have been happily remarried for 16 years.
Outside of AllExperts I can be reached at:
Walk By Faith Counseling Center
www.GodsHealingPower.org
Experience I have personal experience with a husband who committed adultery and have counseled people in this area. I have a weekly radio broadcast and also do street ministry, phone ministry,in-office ministry, e-mail ministry and have ministered on a worldwide prayerline. I am a life coach as well.
Publications Teaching CD's available on our website, GodsHealingPower.org. Look for several of our books to be published and on the website.
Education/Credentials I am a former school teacher, a graduate of Indiana University, 1984. I have received biblical instruction at Victory Bible Institute and am currently working on a PhD.
Question My ex and I have been going through on this divorce!! I'm not wanting too. I wasn't the best husband and father. But have learned from my mistakes. I never hit or cheated or anything like that. Just wasn't there for her and my little girl. Nor was I a drinker. Just mad some bad choices on when to go fishing and stuff. Anyways we have been living apart for a while now. And I have meet other women. And none of them compare to her. She doesn't hate me nor does she like me. She gets jealous when I go out with my family and friends. And gets mad at me. I really want to work this out with her. I have asked her to dinner and she just said maybe. But we do get together sometimes for dinner with my little girl. But I want to take her to dinner and start things over. But she still says that she is hurt and can't look at me the same. is it over. is there anything I can do just to get her to go to dinner with me so she will see that I have changed. Her family tells me she isn't the same. And it seems like all she does is sits around the house now. Her so called friends tell me she is making a mistake. What do I do??
Answer Hi Joe,
I don't really know too much about your situation in depth, so it's hard for me to comment. I do want you to get the book on this website. Order it today:
GodSaveMyMarriage.com
You need to follow the advice of Pastor Joel and do what he tells you if you want to win back your wife. You need to learn what it means to be a husband in the eyes of Christ and then prove to your wife that you have really changed. You need to be humble enough to own up to your mistakes and be willing to put God first in your life so that He can teach you how to treat a wife the way she deserves to be treated.
Read through the website thoroughly and then order the book. This will be a tremendous help to you..
