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About Mary Gordon
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Several years direct experience as caregiver for family member who died of end stage AD. Did lots of research and dealt with a lot of health care professionals and caregivers over the 7 years from diagnosis to the end. Used various care options from community based resources to increasing levels of institutional. Mother of three, two born during our loved one's decline, so I know what it is to be the ham in the sandwich, taking care of the older generation and the younger at the same time and trying to balance everyone`s needs. Ask me, I`ve probably been there, done that. We made lost of mistakes and learned everything the hard way - but you don`t have to! If I can`t answer your question, I`ll steer you to a place or person who can.

Experience
Currently a program manager for a large utility company. My Alzheimers experience comes from having the illness in our family. Out of necessity, we did a lot of research in order to understand the disease, plan for what might come next, and make the right decisions to help and support our loved one. Please note, I am a Canadian living in Toronto, and therefore am not the best person to ask about US regulations and insurance rules!
   

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pneumonia11/20/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: I wrote to you a week ago about my 87 year old dad with Alzheimer's and his weight loss. He now has ...
  A: I know this is a tough one for many people - and I do agree this is a much more difficult struggle ...
Parkinson's and alzheimer's disease cure?11/19/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: 1. is there a known cure for these diseases? 2. if there is no cure, or if there is a cure, are ...
  A: 1. Parkinson's Disease and Alzheimer's Disease are very different illnesses. There is no known cure ...
My mom's memory11/19/2009Paula Damgaard
  Q: What is wrong with my mom, is she getting dementia? she can't remember anything. for example-- We ...
  A: unfortunately, she is not to young. But she could have something else going on as well. She needs ...
dementia in 80 year old woman11/19/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: How quickly can an 80 year old woman progress to a stage 7 dementia? I was at her 80th birthday ...
  A: What you are describing is certainly not typical of a progressive dementia such as Alzheimer's, ...
pain and alzheimer's11/19/2009Michalene Peticca
  Q: My 85 year old mother has Alzheimer's and she complains about hurting all over. Is this the disease ...
  A: No, it is not uncommon for an Alzheimer's individual to complain of pain. This is a physical, ...
Awaken state11/18/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: This will be my 3rd note to you. I went to see my mother today to take the priest up for "last ...
  A: my goodness, how absolutely touching and wonderful - I think these were moments you will remember ...
Alzheimer's and Partial Hip replacement11/18/2009Michalene Peticca
  Q: I'm a student nurse and I want to know what post-op pain medications (Is it NSAIDs, acetaminophen or ...
  A: No, i think it has to do with the brain detoriation that occurs and the less "matter" of which the ...
Alzheimer's and Partial Hip replacement11/17/2009Michalene Peticca
  Q: I'm a student nurse and I want to know what post-op pain medications (Is it NSAIDs, acetaminophen or ...
  A: That answer is generally left up to the Dr. who performed the hip replacement and also the Primary ...
Seizures11/17/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: I wrote on 11-10-09 to you and you were so helpful. Yesterday Mom started have siezures. So I'm ...
  A: People with AD often develop seizures - they are many times more susceptible than a person without a ...
Timing for entering a personal care home11/17/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: I have placed my husband in a personal care home. He has been there for five weeks. He has had a ...
  A: I know it is very hard to do, but hang in there. It is early days yet. It will take a while for him ...
Seeing water11/14/2009Michalene Peticca
  Q: MY Grandfather is 86 yrs of age and is in his last stages of Alzheimer's he still eats and drinks ...
  A: This is an excellent question and thanks for writing me! As parts of the brain deteriorate with ...
weight loss with Alzheimer's11/12/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My 87 year old dad has had AD for 9 years. He does not recognize us most of the time, hardly any ...
  A: Sadly, Cindy, the weight loss is very typical in later stage Alzheimer's. It's heart breaking to see ...
Final Days of Lewy Bodies disease11/11/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My mother appears to be in the last stage of Lewy Bodies disease. She is 87 and wouldn't eat when I ...
  A: Tenita, I know this is difficult, but there is no come back from where she is. This illness is a one ...
End of Life11/10/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My mother has had AD for 9+ years. She has been in a nursing home for the last 5 and prior lived ...
  A: My heart goes out to you. This part is so hard for those she will leave behind. My guess would be ...
husband11/10/2009Alanna Shaikh
  Q: i would like to know if changing my husbands anti depressant pills and changing the times he gets ...
  A: I am sorry you are coping with this very difficult situation. Changing the time of day your husband ...
Traveling for Alzheimer's Patient11/9/2009Alanna Shaikh
  Q: My mother has been diagnosed with AD. She appears to be in stage five. She is now seven hours away ...
  A: I can't find any site that specifically talks about the medical impact of travel on Alzheimer's, but ...
Traveling for Alzheimer's Patient11/9/2009Alanna Shaikh
  Q: My mother has been diagnosed with AD. She appears to be in stage five. She is now seven hours away ...
  A: I don't know of any kind of medical reason for this travel restriction. However, I can also see ...
dementia11/7/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My husband had a massive stroke in Jan 08, resulting in left side paralysis and progressive ...
  A: to register complaints against Nursing Home or Hospitals in Maine, you can call the complaint ...
dementia11/6/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My husband had a massive stroke in Jan 08, resulting in left side paralysis and progressive ...
  A: If he has been treated the way you describe, it's a good thing he's out of that place! He deserves ...
Not sleeping in the nursing home11/6/2009Paula Damgaard
  Q: My Mother began showing short-term memory loss and confusion about 7 years ago. She was diagnosed ...
  A: Julia, my 1st thoughts as I started reading were: she might have a urinary tract infection. While I ...
Early Onset Alzheimer's CRYING11/6/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My father is going to be 82 next May, his wife (my Stepmother) is only 63 and has been dealing with ...
  A: you need the support of a neurologist or psychiatrist who have a specialty in dementias. It sounds ...
dementia11/5/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My husband had a massive stroke in Jan 08, resulting in left side paralysis and progressive ...
  A: is the reason they are rejecting him because he is physically combatative ? I ask because if he is ...
What to do now?11/3/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My Mother (78) was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2005. Since then she's had stints put in her heart ...
  A: at what point do you go for comfort measures to keep her out of pain and distress, and just strive ...
Levels of Alzheimer's11/2/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: Are there standards used to judge how bad the Alzheimer's is in a person? Amazing how bad off ...
  A: below my signature I've pasted the most commonly used set of "stages". Your Dad sounds like he is in ...
walking & walking with head down11/1/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My mother was diagnosed with dementia/Alzheimer in approx 2005.She recently stopped walking ,it was ...
  A: eating problems are also a common problem. By this stage, she will have lost a lot of her sense of ...
My ex husband10/31/2009Paula Damgaard
  Q: I have been divorced for almost nine years from the father of my two children who are 10 and 12. ...
  A: Rhonda, First of all you are NOT cold hearted!! If you ask me his siblings are the coldhearted ...
Possible Stroke/Alzhiemers10/30/2009Paula Damgaard
  Q: My mother-in-law will be 96 next month. In the last 6 - 9 months she has progressivley gone down ...
  A: Linda, have you checked her urine? 99.5% of the time when we see dementia patients turn that ...
Medical Health Insurance for Alzheimer's patients10/26/2009Michalene Peticca
  Q: My mother lives in FL and was diagnosed with AD last year. I have been unhappy with her health ...
  A: Your question is very interesting and i'm not exactly sure what you mean by "coverage for ...
My father has Dementia10/26/2009Paula Damgaard
  Q: My father has had Dementia for the past fifteen years. This past week I have a hard time getting him ...
  A: the problem is the disease. As people go through the disease, they go through stages just like we ...
agitation10/26/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: I have been caring for a 94-year old Grandmother with Alzheimers for over two years now, but she had ...
  A: the UTI alone can be enough to really plunge a person into a spiral mentally. I'm not sure what the ...
Weightloss10/25/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: What concerns me, is the fact that she is losing weight very fast. She cant eat by herself anymore, ...
  A: sounds like you do have some very valid concerns. If she has hunger and will eat, and is losing ...
Weightloss10/24/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: What concerns me, is the fact that she is losing weight very fast. She cant eat by herself anymore, ...
  A: It's very common for a person with late stage Alzheimers to begin to lose weight steadily. As you ...
Diagnosis10/20/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My 83 year old father has a cognitive disorder, but I have yet to get a real diagnosis as to what it ...
  A: The term "dementia" is not a diagnosis, as I know you realize. It is a term like "fever". It ...
Early stage Alzheimer's10/19/2009Michalene Peticca
  Q: My 75 yr old mother has been experiencing short term memory problems for a couple years. She is now ...
  A: I am very glad your mother has made the decision on her own to move to an Assisted Living. That ...
general anesthesia and surgery for hip fracture10/17/2009Paula Damgaard
  Q: I need help, my mother fell, had hip surgery had 3 screws inserted into hip, at a time still not ...
  A: you are right it will affect her dementia, but you don't have much choice! You can't leave her in ...
Down's Syndrome and AD10/17/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: I wrote once before and greatly appreciated the response to my question. I questioned the grimacing ...
  A: I'm glad she's feeling more content - you must be relieved. It doubles the heartbreak when the ...
Long hours sleeping10/16/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: My dad is 85, has moderate Alzheimer's and dementia. At home he would sleep 20-22 hours each day. ...
  A: Many people with progressive neurological damage will experience excessive sleepiness and lethargy - ...
Long hours sleeping10/16/2009Paula Damgaard
  Q: My dad is 85, has moderate Alzheimer's and dementia. At home he would sleep 20-22 hours each day. ...
  A: we are not sure why some dementia patients sleep like your father and why some don't sleep at all! ...
Sleeping long hours10/16/2009Michalene Peticca
  Q: My dad is 85, has moderate Alzheimer's and dementia. At home he would sleep 20-22 hours each day. ...
  A: Most individuals in the later stages of Alzheimer's disease do tend to sleep a lot. It is not ...
alzheimer10/15/2009Mary Gordon
  Q: my mom has progressive supra nuclear palls, she complains about nervousness, agitation and her head ...
  A: the dementia that can come from progressive supranuclear palsy (PSP)is different than the dementia ...

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