Alzheimer`s Disease/MOM

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I don't want you to think that I want Mom to go on I know Moms know where close to just letting her go. We love Mom with all our hearts and we hope a cure is found in time for Mom.
The Dr. does want to do surgery on Mom but he is being very careful as to what he tells us. He said he needs to go in her bladder and check it .Why would he want to do that ? I don't see why that has any thing to do with her back hurting. He is a kidney specialist. He is wanting to do it right away. I feel like we need to check with another Dr. before we let him do any thing to Mom .
What do you think?
       Once more Thank You.

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Sandy, all I can tell you is what happened to me in my early 20's.  I developed a sore back and didn't think much about it - I played sports, so I just figured I had pulled a muscle or gotten bruised. It was aching, and sore to touch on one side below my ribs. Then I woke up in the middle of the night with the absolute worst pain I've ever had - like hot stabbing in my back, and I got taken to hospital. Turned out I had an acute kidney infection. I had no other symptoms than the back pain. They told me I had probably had a bladder infection with no symptoms, and  the bacteria had worked its way back into my kidney. So kidney problems CAN cause terrible back pain. He may think that the valves from the bladder to the kidney are not working, and are letting urine back into the kidney, bringing bacteria with it.

Here is an article about it
http://health.discovery.com/centers/pain/back/back_kidney.html

Hope this helps. You need to ask him what he thinks is going on. He must have a reason for wanting to check her bladder, and suspect that the back pain might be related. Ask him!! If you don't like his answers you can always get another opinion.

Mary

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Several years direct experience as caregiver for family member who died of end stage AD. Did lots of research and dealt with a lot of health care professionals and caregivers over the 7 years from diagnosis to the end. Used various care options from community based resources to increasing levels of institutional. Mother of three, two born during our loved one's decline, so I know what it is to be the ham in the sandwich, taking care of the older generation and the younger at the same time and trying to balance everyone`s needs. Ask me, I`ve probably been there, done that. We made lost of mistakes and learned everything the hard way - but you don`t have to! If I can`t answer your question, I`ll steer you to a place or person who can.

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Currently a program manager for a large utility company. My Alzheimers experience comes from having the illness in our family. Out of necessity, we did a lot of research in order to understand the disease, plan for what might come next, and make the right decisions to help and support our loved one. Please note, I am a Canadian living in Toronto, and therefore am not the best person to ask about US regulations and insurance rules!

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