About Destri Expertise You can ask me anything! Nothing is too kinky, believe me, I have heard it all. I will give you a thoughtful and detailed answer. I am non-judgmental and you can`t shock me.
Experience Besides many years of having sex :o), I am a 24/7/365 slave to my Master. I have done professional phone sex as well.
I have also been a professional counselor.
Question I am very keen for my wife and i to try anal sex. I have a great deal about going slowly, lots of lubrication and plenty of patience. She has in the past during Oral I have slipped a finger into her ass. Initially she was resistant but got into it and suddenly she gave way and my finger slipped right up to its knuckle. i am keen to take this further but she says men who want this are really saying they want anal with another guy. How can I convince her to open up her feelings and to enjoy this new part of our sex life?
Answer I'm sorry, but I can't tell you how to convince your wife to allow you to fuck her anally. If she is really dead set against it, no amount of pleading, logic or anything else will get her to change her mind. Some people are just not cut out to try new things.
It is ridiculous, of course, to say that men who enjoy anal secretly want sex with other men. Anal sex is common in hetero couples. Is there any possiblity of getting her to watch any porn? If you were to rent some x-rated movies showing hetero anal sex, maybe that would help.
