Anorexia/Eating Disorders/recovering anexoric

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QUESTION: Hello I am still in revovery from anexoric it has been 2 years now.  I workout five days a week about one hour of cardio 5 days a aweek and three days strenght training.  I have been getting periods regualarly until last month.  And, people have been telling me it looks like i have lost weight.  But, the scale has not been moving and I am twenty pounds away from my goal weight.  But, my clothes are looser.  I was wondering if losing inches can stop my period again.  I didnt not get my period for three years while being anexoric.

Jeanne Rust, PhD
Jeanne Rust, PhD  
ANSWER: Dear Kate,

This is a tough question!  Could you give me a little more information?  I'm wondering what your height and weight is now?  Do you weigh every day?  How long has it been that your clothes have been looser?

The key on the period is that you need a Body Mass Index of at least 18.  There are many sites on the internet that will tell you what that is.  It is not losing inches, per se, that will cause some's period to stop but the overall imbalance between food intake and energy output.

I think that the scale is not moving because you're exercising so much.  If you want to gain weight, you can cut the number of times a week for cardio to 3.  If your therapist is OK with the amount you're exercising weekly, then you'll need to increase your calories.  

I'm starting to ask more questions now because I've been criticized on this forum for suggesting a therapist.  The reason I do that is because people with eating disorders usually are very ill.  I do want them to get professional help.  If this is not an option, let me know and I can begin to suggest specifics for each person!

Thanks so much for writing, Kate.  I hope to hear from you soon!

Warmly,
Jeanne Rust, PhD
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QUESTION: My height is 5'3 140lbs. I weigh myself once or twice a week. But I have been at this weight for 3 months. I'm not sure why-i watch my carbs and exercise regularly. Hopefully, you can give me some insight as to why this is happening. Thanks!

ANSWER: Dear Kate,

I am sure that you've gained lots and lots of muscle given the amount you exercise -- not wrong mind you.  I don't know how many calories you're consuming a day now but I think that you'd lose if you cut some calories.

Can you send me a sample meal plan of what you eat?  We'll see what we can see!  :o)

Warmly,
Jeannie



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QUESTION: I have gone to a nutritionist-but she told me to eat more especially carbs I don't feel comfortable with that. So, this is what I eat mostly everyday.
Breakfast egg white omelette 120 cal.
Coffee.  30 cal
Lunch lean protein chicken
Dinner lean protein chicken with salad no dressing
Snack #1 carb smart yogurt 45 calories
5nack #2 atkins bar 200 calories
Snack #3 trail mix 150calories.

*sometimes for lunch I will have a low carb wrap with natural peanut buTter.
I usually average out to 1280-1300 calories daily.
Hope you can help!
Thanks!

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Dear Kate,

You are eating a diet that is perfect for someone with an eating disorder!  You do need to eat more to re-start your metabolism.  Remember this is about being completely recovered where you can be a normal eater that has three small meals a day (each one including protein) and 2 small snacks daily.  I really think that your nutritionist is spot on.  Recovering is about learning to take risks even though you're uncomfortable.  The uncomfortable feeling is your eating disorder speaking to you.  You also are eating mostly a fat free diet which is definitely not healthy -- it's also quite eating disordered.  See if you can get at least 2-3 tablespoons of fat daily.

Keep in touch -- I know this isn't going to be your best message from me, but I hope that you consider these suggestions thoughtfully!

Warmly,
Jeannie

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I have been treating eating disorders for over 25 years and I have a doctorate in clinical psychology. I am an expert in anorexia, bulimia and binge eating disorders and in co-occurring disorders as well -- depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, etc. I was the official eating disorder therapist for the University of Arizona athletic department and love working with girls and women of all ages! 12 years ago I started my own treatment centers in Arizona where we treat adolescents and adults. I love working with people and have been helping people online since 1994. My hearts go out to the people out there who are unable to find help, who aren't sure whether they need help, and who don't have much of an understanding of the terrible consequences, emotionally and physically, that go hand in hand with the eating disorder. I view eating disorders as coping mechanisms that people use when they are under stress. I believe that eating disorders most times have many similarities whether it is anorexia, bulimia, or binge eating. The good news is that people can heal from an eating disorder and learn to create the lives they would like to live.

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I have 25 years of experience in treating eating disorders of all kinds. I also do consultations for people who are starting treatment centers.

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Northwestern University -- BA Masters in Counseling Doctorate in Clinical Psychology -- Saybrook institute

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