Expert: Loren - 7/27/2007

Question
I've struggled since my early 20's with an obsession about dieting and my body image.  I've been to OA, been hypnotized, took laxatives, etc.  I've never purged, but that's about all I haven't tried.  Some times I can get a grip on it, and my weight is more manageable, but if I go through a particularly bad experience with men in particular - I just start binging on sweets.  Right now, I'm taking Didrex, and that's really not helping that much.  Any suggestions?  Thanks!!!

Answer
Hello Diana

Yes, I think most women would agree that at the root of nearly every problem is a man. I'm not trying to trivialize this but I think you already know that women in particular have coping mechanisms when it comes to experiences like relationships and you're not alone with yours.

However, I understand this cuts a bit deeper than that. Your problem will not be solved by pills. I know you've said it failed but I really do believe this can be fixed with the right therapy. Your problem sits in the habitual sense of the word and you need the help of an occupational therapist to nip this in the bud.

I hope this helps,
Loren