Expert: Loren - 6/4/2007

Question
i have started purging four years ago. now its  5-6 times a day. im a gymnast and i cant handle the stress of my eating disorder, plus im always tired. my weight and body is ALL i think about.. ever! i tried to stop on my own. but i end up relapsing a week later.

i need outside help. what should i do. whom should i tell? how should i tell them?

ive actually made an appointment with my doctor twice and bailed each time. im too ashamed. please help.

Answer
Hello Sam

I do understand the shame surrounding an eating disorder, but that is the disorder controlling your mind. Deep down you have recognised that you have a problem that needs professional help. That's a step in the right direction.

I would advise you to go to the doctors again. Perhaps a female doctor would be easier to talk to about this. I'd explain your situation and then your doctor can explain to you the different types of treatment available.

Tell your doctor everything. My doctors knew about my problem before I even could admit I had a problem to myself, and when confronted or probed at I'd lie like a trouper. It would also highlight the seriousness of the situation if you also mention that you have attempted recovery on your own but were unsuccessful.

Take care,
Loren