Anorexia/Eating Disorders/Do I have a problem?

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Hi. I think I have an eating problem. I was looking on the internet one day about eating disorders & there was this thing that gave you your height & weight & tells you if you are underweight or overweight & it siad for me I was a little under weight.but I dont see it. I am 5'8'' or 5'9'' & i weigh round 130. I have days were I wont eat a thing (when Im not around my mom) then I have days were I eat everything in sight & i feel horrible like I have done something bad so I excersise & do 200 crunches a day! When I dont eat my head kills me, i get dizzy, my eyes turn bloodshot & yellow & i feel horrible. When i eat I feel huge & look huge. Poeple tell me I am skinny & have a problem but I dont believe them. I want to be anorexic skinny but i dont know how. how do i lose weight without my mom noticing? My mom doesnt want me to lose weight & is worried about me. But now i always feel huge & want to be super skinny! My hair falls out alot too & i am like always cold. please help me!


am I underweight? do you know?


i just got bak from camp & i ate a ton i gained like 3 pounds & now i feel like I have to lose it. i dont feel underweight at all. i feel huge. i wear like a 4-6 & i wanna wear a 2. i feel huge when I cant get into a 4. i wanna be skinny so bad. i dont feel skinny at all & when I look at my slef i dont look skinny. when I eat i feel horrible i don't know what to do. thank you for your time.


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If you're anorexic, you have a mental problem. That sounds harsh, but you see, I AM anorexic. Currently in another recovery period.
Did you know that anorexia is the number ONE most fatal of all psychological disorders? ALL anorexics will die. 100%. If we don't stop, it will kill us and it won't be pretty.

Before you get too sick, get some help. REAL help. Find a support group in your area or through your mental health center (local hospital, your doctor's office, etc). You probably have a degree of BDD (body dysmorphic disorder), where you have unreasonable and untrue self-perceptions.

take a look at my site and look more into the anorexia facts (and options).

If you are anorexic, you can't help it. It's like being schizophrenic or having any of hundred of mental disorders.
If you're NOT anorexic, surely you aren't hoping to aquire a psychogical disorder are you?  

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I have lived it and survived it. I know every excuse, reason, thought, feeling and rationalization - and I'm going to be very honest in my advice.

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I've lost (& gained)HUNDREDS of lbs over a lifetime, more than 30 years of "professional dieting". Presently a counselor for sufferers of eating disorders, a nutritional advisor and spiritual counselor (Reverend,doctor); I've been on every diet there is and used the most bizarre weight loss products you can imagine. I am FORMERLY obese, anorexic (several times), bulimic MOST of the time - and maintaining size 4, with no gimmicks, devices, programs, pills or supplements.

I currently investigate the diet industry on behalf of consumers who do not need to be ripped off while struggling to be healthy. I WILL expose them all and I WON'T be intimidated, bullied or bought. My advice is for cost-free options. I have nothing whatsoever to gain from my recommendation(s). I make no money from my website and I sell, promote, endorse NO diet/health products, programs or devices. You'll also never see me on the receiving end of a hidden camera report...but you can be assured, I won't quit until I've exposed those who are out to take advantage of you.

It's a matter of choices. We need to stop complicating things.


Degrees & Certifications:
I'm an ordained minister (Reverend, doctor) spiritual/living/behavior counselor.

I have a medical education and management background (with college). Through early 90's (until retirement) Who's Who Of American Women; Who's Who On the East Coast; Who's Who Among Emerging American Leaders; Who's Who Of Intellectuals - all for "outstanding performance in (my) field".



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While active (through the 1980's), included in Who's Who Of American Women; Who's Who On the East Coast; Who's Who Among Emerging American Leaders; Who's Who Of Intellectuals - all for "outstanding performance in (my) field".



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Ordained Minister; phlebotomist; medical information researcher for court cases

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Doctorate of Divinity

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