Expert: Vachaspati - 3/11/2008

Question
QUESTION: Hello sir, I have questions regarding my marriage and career prospects. My DOB is 12 sep 1977, Female, Birth city and time  Delhi, 950 P.M. My family has been trying to find a partner for me for past 4 years, something or the other keeps going wrong.Some astrologers also gave me suggestive remedy of wearing Diamond/Pukhraj/Nelam/ Iron ring etc( i wear diamond , iron ring and pearl). Ive been told there is kal sarp yog in my kundli which is detterent to my marraige and carreer. Though i am highly educcted and i have a decent job for past 6 years, i dont see much success comming my way.  Could you please let me know if i have marraige alliance in my kundli , if yes then when is the expected time for it. Same with my carrer.

ANSWER: Dear Anjali,

It is the case of "Too many cooks.." While cooks can only spoil one dinner, astrologers can mar pretty few years.!

I smell a small degree of  conflict as you say "Though i am highly educated and i have a decent job for past 6 years, i dont see much success coming my way." Hows that you put 'decent job' and dissatisfaction together.?

Any how, let me come to the main area of genuine concern. Yes, you are late for marriage. However, you have some how entered the culmination zone of waiting period. I can see you getting married from April to July this year.

As you have had enough, I would not tax you further with different remedies. On the contrary would suggest you to avoid putting on diamond and neelam. Continue iron ring.

Would you mind keeping pending your career issue right now?

All the best.

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5th March, 2008

I saw somebody's advice for you on another website. There is some suggestions about Kalasarpa Yoga. In this connection, I would request you to visit this link - http://gauravastro.150m.com/articles.html  and go through article on
"The Mystery of Kal Sarpa Yoga revealed"



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QUESTION: Hi thanks for your advice and sending in the link. I am aware of the kal sarp yoga in my kundli, infact i did visit Trimkeshwar temple near Nasik in 2007 for this. I dont know if something more needs to be done for this. I get very mixed reactions about mangal, mars, saturn and kal sarp, looks like there is just too many problems.  Do any remedy really help, coz any remedy that i may do is not going to change anything in planetry postions.

Answer
Hi Anjali,

What's wrong ?

The crux of the matter in the article I referred to you was - You Need Not Worry At all about Kalsarpa Dosha - there is no reference about such Yoga in ancient books of Indian Astrology. However, you have come up with "I am aware of the kal sarp yoga in my kundli, infact i did visit Trimkeshwar temple near Nasik in 2007 for this..."

Further, I tried to explain it to you that you have already crossed the 'Delay' aspect because of your age and now there is no logic for doing any remedy.

However, I am thrilled with your question.. "Do any remedy really help, coz any remedy that i may do is not going to change anything in planetary positions..." What you have hinted is correct to some extent. The Planets want change with the performance of remedy. But the mind of the person would change. We are not concerned with the changing of placement of planets in the chart. We are concerned as the native suffers. All sufferings are psychological.

The concepts of 'remedies' and 'Astrology' are conflicting with each other. However, since the native is suffering, distressed and his self-confidence has shaken; he would believe anything - any illogical thing.! On the other hand in the filed of Astrology, in absence of any standard credentials, any tom and harry starts consultation. Adding fire to the fuel, astrology has gone in the hands of money making persons. The clients are also to be blamed for this state of affairs. We very often see 'chronic clients' seeking remedies..frequently (you can classify your self where do you fall as a client?). But, leaving aside monetary aspects, if by performing certain remedies, if the client get relieved and relaxed; I don't think theres any thing wrong.

I hope, I have indicated in my previous response about likely favourable period for your marriage to take place.

All the Best.!