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Hello Mr. Bill Hajdu,

Like your detailed pass responses to relationship compatibility questions, can
you tell me how compatible would a female born December 2, 1984 is to a
male born June 12, 1980? I don't know the exact time of births.

Also, what are my personal strengths and weaknesses? The last few years I
have been struggling with knowing myself and finally this year I am starting
my journey as a full-time student.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read and answer the questions, it is
very much appreciated!

Answer
Hi Annie,

You were born during the year of the Wood Rat, month of the Wood Pig and day of the Metal Horse. He was born during the year of the Metal Monkey, month of the Metal Snake and day of the Fire Dragon.

This match has a 46% favorable compatibility rating, which is slightly below average. It thus has less than a 50-50 chance of lasting and bringing you the happiness you seek. This looks more like a fatal attraction than a match made in heaven, as your year signs match up extremely well while your months signs are very bad for you two.

You have no Water in your chart, which means school can be challenging for you. On the other hand you have strong Metal, which indicates good determination and a fighting spirit. You can accomplish your goals in spite of difficulties. You also have high normal Fire, which is for energy, charisma and not being afraid to go after what you want.

For you Wealth is associated with Fire, which indicates the best way for you to make money is in management or some kind of leadership position. This is nevertheless a challenge due to your lack of Water, which likely indicates difficulties with communications. The best way to help yourself in your studies is to take course that help improve your spoken (Speech) and written (English) communications as well as interpersonal relations (Psychology).

If you would like to learn more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com.

Thank u for your question.

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Chinese Astrology. I`ve done Chinese astrology for over 20 years, pimary experience Ming Shu style. I am NOT a psychic. I can't answer questions about when a particular event will occur, when/if your life will change, or what your spouse is going to be/look like. I do comment on relationships, career, personality analysis and life cycle chi, i.e., energy level and influences at each of the five stages of life. I evaluate specific relationships or can look at your love life in general. I can tell you your best career choices and whether the one you've chosen is good for you. And, I can identify the strong and weak times in your life. I've done work for Yahoo, astrology.com and onlinechineseastrology.com.

Experience

I've studied Chinese astrology for over 20 years now and done several thousand charts. My specialty is four pillars method, particularly as applied to evaluating relationships. I've also done Nine Star Ki and readings using Mah Jong tiles. My next step is to learn Purple Star astrology. It identifies many more chart details, but accurate readings are time consuming and dependent upon a lifetime of acquired experience.

Organizations
World Future Society

Education/Credentials
M.A. International Relations, University of Southern California (USC) Graduate)

Awards and Honors
Distinguished Graduate, USC

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