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Expert: Zane B Stein Date: 3/12/2008 Subject: sun moon compatibility
Question QUESTION: What does it mean in relationship chart if personA’s sun is harmonious with PersonB’s moon but PersonB’s sun is not harmonious with personA’s moon?
ANSWER: Hi, Jaanaki,
I'm a little unclear about your question. Are you saying that Person B's Sun is in a non-harmonious aspect with Person A's Moon, such as a square ? Or are you saying that there just isn't any harmonious aspect between those two?
And how are you defining the harmoious relationship between Person A's Sun and Person B's Moon? Conjunction? Trine? Sextile?
And what orb are you using for your aspects?
If you will clarify the above I will be happy to answer your question.
Best wishes,
Zane
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QUESTION: Zane,sorry for the confusion.By hormonious aspect i meant any one of trine/sextile/conjunction and by non hormonious i meant particularly a square aspect. Let me take an example: Boy has sun in Aries and moon in Cancer.
Girl has sun in Libra and moon in Leo. Here since boy's sun is in trine with girl's moon but girl's sun is forming a square with boy's moon, i want to know how it is going to affect their relationship. Assume that the aspects between their other planets are satisfactory. Use any orb.
Thank you so much for your time.
Answer Hi, Jaanaki,
Because a trine is different from a sextile, and both are different than
a conjunction, the relationship would be different in each one of those cases.
So I will focus on your example, and assume a close orb of 1-3 degrees.
The following would be modified some of the harmonious aspect was stronger than the square, or visa versa.
First, there will definitely be a mutual attraction. Even Sun square Moon often find themselves attracted to each other, but because there is an aspect both ways, the two will feel very drawn to each other. The square will add a bit of spice to the relationship, because in many ways
Sun square Moon is kind of a 'forbidden fruit' aspect....that is, an attraction and yet a feeling like maybe you shouldn't be attracted.
Boy's Sun trines the Girl's Moon:
This will indicate a feeling of kindred spirits in many ways, and will (if the aspect is close), be a strong bond that will find the two able to stay comfortable together even if there are bad times, or less than desirable other aspects. The energy flows between the two naturally, and the Girl feels comfortable, relaxed, when the Boy is just being himself. She feels she can rely on him, which makes him feel he wants to be there for her. But the trine can have negatives....there can be a tendency for some complacency to set in, and for the two to take each other for granted, which can over time lead to one or both feeling there is a lack of excitement in the relationship.
However, because of the other aspect, that really isn't a danger, and you will see why in a minute.
Girl's Sun squares the Boy's Moon:
As I said, there is some attraction. But the differences are significant. The Boy can grow after awhile that the Girl comes on a bit too strong, or is too wrapped up in herself, and perhaps not as sensitive to his needs as he feels she should be. The Girl can start to feel that the Boy is a bit inconsistent emotionally, or tempermental, and perhaps too sensitive (and maybe, too dependent.)
The Boy can build up some resentment. And there can be disagreements based on the way each person feels the other 'should be'....the Boy feeling the Girl should be more like his mother was (even if he is unconscious about this), the Girl feeling the Boy should be more like her father (again not always conscious.) The square shows that some of the things the Boy takes for granted....such as day to day routines, folding the towels a certain way, perhaps the direction the toilet paper roll needs to face, may be difficult for the Girl to adust to, and so there can be petty bickering, and there almost certainly will be arguments.
The combination of these two? A strong attraction, a feeling of kindred spirits, the Girl feeling comfortable with the Boy, but the Boy finding at times discomfort with the way the Girl doesn't fit with his ideal situation; a bond strong enough to keep them together, but differences enough to cause arguments on a regular basis. The square will keep it from ever getting boring, the trine will keep it from becoming a major battlefield.
