AboutBill Hajdu Expertise Chinese Astrology. I`ve done Chinese astrology for over 19 years, pimary experience Ming Shu style. I am NOT a psychic. I do comment on relationships, career, personality analysis and life cycle chi, i.e., energy level and influences at each of the five stages of life.
Experience I've studied Chinese astrology for almost 18 years now and done several thousand charts. My specialty is four pillars method, particularly as applied to evaluating relationships. My next step is to learn Purple Star astrology. It identifies many more chart details, but accurate readings are time consuming and dependent upon a lifetime of acquired experience.
Expert: Bill Hajdu Date: 4/16/2008 Subject: relationship compatibility
Question Hello mr. Hadju, thanks for taking the time to read this.
I was wondering about the difference in the ways
a male born october 8, 1985 3:37am and a female born on April 10, 1987 interact with each other.
And what common weaknesses should be expected based on the chart. Thank you for your help
Answer Hi Mike,
You were born during the year of the Wood Ox, month of the Wood Rooster, day of the Water Horse and hour of the Wood Tiger.
She was born during the year of the Fire Rabbit, month of the Wood Dragon and day of the Earth Ox.
From a Chinese astrology perspective, this match has a 49% favorable compatibility rating, which is very average. There is likely to be a relatively equal amount of good and bad things about this relationship.
Here are three things that stand out. First, you both have a lot of strong signs. That is good in that you probably respect each other, but it also means there is going to be a lot of clashes of wills. You both will have to be willing to make compromises. Second, her Rabbit year sign clashes badly with your Rooster month sign. She is likely to hate arguments, and you probably tend to be argumentative. This creates the potential for a lot of stress and conflict, especially from her perspective. Finally, both of your element profiles are unbalanced. Fortunately, you each have what the other lacks. Unfortunately she is strong Fire while you are strong Metal. Fire is the enemy of Metal. She is likely to be hot (temperamental) and you cold, which could be perceived as insensitive by her Rabbit year sign.
This is an exciting dynamic, match, but one that probably experiences a lot of conflict and stress.
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Thank u for your question.
p.s. You each have an Ox sign, which means there could be a lot of stubbornness and too often an unwillingness to compromise.
