Expert: Bill Hajdu - 4/24/2008

Question
Hello Mr. Hajdu thank you for taking the time to read my question,

I was wondering if you could tell about the strengths and weaknesses of a relationship between a male born on October 8, 1985 3:37am and a female born on July 20, 1987?  

Answer
Hi Mike,

You were born during the year of the Wood Ox, month of the Wood Rooster, day of the Water Horse and hour of the Water Tiger.

She was born during the year of the Fire Rabbit, month of the Fire Sheep and day of the Metal Horse.

From a Chinese astrology perspective this match has a 65% favorable compatibility rating, which is very good. I should, however, say you would be happier with someone born during the year of the Snake and she with someone born during the year of the Pig.

You bring a lot of the willingness to compromise (strong Wood) and she dynamism and charisma (strong Fire). Generally she is better at initiating action and you at finishing things. She is more likely to provide warmth and excitement while you steely determination, strength and stability.

The match's weakness is a shortage (tho not a great amount) of Earth. Earth is for practicality, for a willingness to handle all the administrative details necessary to avoid unnecessary problems. Generally your strengths and weaknesses are complementary. If you two can overcome the lack of Earth and recognize that your strengths are different, they will contribute to the long term health of your relationship.

If you would like to learn more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my site at www.onlinechineseastrology.com.

Thank u for your question.