Expert: Shanda - 6/30/2008

Question
QUESTION: I was  borned 29. November 1978 and I am interested in understanding some aspect from my natal card (wheel), concerning  relationship isues. Please tell me something more about that.
thank you

ANSWER: Dear Zulieta,

Thank you for coming to me with your question.

In order to look at your natal chart more fully, I will need your time and place of birth, in addition to your date of birth. Please send this additional information to me, and I will then be happy to attend to your question.

Kind regards,
Shanda

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QUESTION: First of all thanks for replying to my question.
My date of birth is 29 November 1978, time 11:25 p.m. and place: Strumica, Republic of Macedonia
would be very thankful if you could tell something more about my future, precisely, love matter.
Once again,
thank you!

Answer
Dear Zulieta,

Thank you for sending me your complete birth details.

I see that you are currently in what I like to call the "Marriage Zone," which is a period of time during which a person is likely to either get married or make a serious relationship commitment. For you, the strongest indicators point to a marriage, etc. during the second half of 2009 (before your 31st birthday).

Relationships are hard for you because you feel that you are doing all of the work to keep the relationship going. It can get to be very hard for you to always be making so much of an effort. Fights, arguments, and a lack of emotional closeness may be a part of your interactions with your mate.

You may wonder why this area of life is not easier for you. It is possibly because, in this lifetime, you must learn about how to be more independent, and a relationship may at times get in the way of your growth in that direction. If you can make changes in your life that will allow you to balance the search for personal growth and self-understanding with your desire to be in a relationship, a lot of the problems that you have in this area will resolve themselves...but as long as you put too much energy into only being in a relationship, and as long as you keep on neglecting to learn more about who you really are as an individual, the worse things will be in the romance department.

You may not always feel very confident about yourself, but again, the more time and effort that you put into just learning about yourself and being okay with being yourself, the easier you will find things to be. I see that you are shy, and you might have a tendency to go along with other people's plans even when you don't want to, just to keep the peace...but denying what you really want leads to repressed feelings of anger, and you may not always speak very kindly to others because of the tension that you allow to build up within you. If you could work on being more open with others about what you are and are not willing to do, this will help you to gain confidence, and your relationships will improve.

Making these changes will not be easy, but the effort will be worth the reward in the end. Your future spouse will play a very important role in helping you with these things, and while you may not always think that he's helping you, rest assured that this is precisely why the two of you have come together during this lifetime.

I hope this information is helpful for you, Zulieta.

Very best wishes,
Shanda