Expert: Bill Hajdu - 7/3/2008

Question
dear mr. hajdu,

I was wondering if you could tell me briefly about the strengths and weaknesses of a relationship between a male born on october 8th, 1985 3:37am and a female born on June 21st, 1987 (San francisco,CA USA time)

do you have any recommendations on how to strengthen this relationship based on the astrology chart?

thank you for your expertise.

Answer
Hi Mike,

You were born during the year of the Wood Ox, month of the Wood Rooster, day of the Water Horse and hour of the Water Tiger.

She was born during the year of the Fire Rabbit, month of the Fire Horse, and day of the Metal Ox.

From a Chinese astrology perspective this match has a 70% favorable compatibility rating, which is excellent. It has a very good chance of lasting and bringing you the happiness you seek.

There are three things I see right away in your charts. First, her year sign is Rabbit. Rabbits need a lot of emotional support. Frankly, none of your signs are very good at doing that. You really need to make a big effort in this area.

Secondly, you each have an Ox sign. You've no doubt heard the saying "bull in a china shop." You both need to exhibit a spirit of compromise, or you're likely to end up in a lot of clashes of wills.

Thirdly, she has a lot of Fire in her chart. She could have a bit of a temper. There is nothing you can do about that, but you sure don't want to exacerbate things by goading her. So, avoid saying and doing things that rattle her cage.

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Thank you for your question.