Expert: Bill Hajdu - 8/5/2008

Question
Dear Mr. Hajdu,

can you tell me the compatibility and strengths and weaknesses between a male born on october 8th 1985 3:37am and a female born on May 3rd 1987 based on the chart breakdown.

Answer
Hi Mike,

You were born during  the year of the Wood Ox, month of the Wood Rooster, day of the Water Horse and hour of the Water Tiger.

She was born during the year of the Fire Rabbit, month of the Wood Snake, and day of the Water Rat.

From a Chinese astrology perspective, this match has a 68% favorable compatibility rating, which is excellent. There is a very good chance of it lasting and bringing you the happiness you seek.

Your great strength is Wood. You are both likely to be caring individuals and willing to make more than your fair share of compromises to keep the relationship healthy.

Your big weakness is a lack of Earth. Especially when combined with strong Wood this indicates unrealistic expectations and a lack of practicality. You will both need to work hard to insure little details and mundane matters are taken care of in a timely manner. This is important, for example, when it comes to balancing the check book and monitoring finances.

One other important point. Her Rabbit year sign is in conflict with your Rooster month sign. You might have a tendency to argue, even nag. If so, you will drive her peaceful Rabbit (year sign) crazy, perhaps to the point of her wanting to leave the relationship. This is a tendency you must curb if you want her to be happy and satisfied in the relationship.

This relationship is likely to be lots of fun. Just don't forget the routine and work aspects of it if you want it to be successful.

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Thank u for your question.

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