Expert: Bill Hajdu - 8/9/2008

Question
I was born on May 3rd 1987, can you tell me some things about my personality tendencies based on the elements chart?

especially as it comes to relationships

Answer
Hi Michelle,

You were born during the year of the Fire Rabbit, month of the Wood Snake and day of the Water Rat.

Your strengths are associated with the elements Fire and Wood and your weaknesses with Earth and Metal. Generally your elements are unbalanced. It is thus especially important that your partner's are.

The most telling thing is strong Fire combined with weak Earth. This is characteristic of someone who acts without thinking, who is dynamic but probably not practical.

You might have to make a significant effort to pay attention to those details and mundane matters that need to be dealt with to keep your relationship running smoothly.

Given your mix of signs, your best match is someone born in the year of the Sheep, 4 years younger or 8 years older than you. Also, you might have a fatal attraction. Pig, 4 years older or 8 years younger is normally a great match for Rabbit. Unfortunately Pig clashes badly with your month, Snake sign and probably should be avoided.

Finally, I should say your chart indicators of family happiness are above average. As long as you choose wisely, and neither you nor your partner are "damaged goods" (drugs, alcoholism, mental problems, etc.), you should have a great chance of achieving the happiness you seek.

If you would like to know more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com. If you would like a more detailed analysis of your love life, you can orde one at the site for a modest cost. You are also welcome to submit a follow up question on anything I've said or another topic of interest to you.

Thank u for your question.