Expert: Bill Hajdu - 10/29/2009

Question
QUESTION: Born April 8, 1981

Do you see any romantic relationships anywhere in my life, hell it's been a long time waiting :p

ANSWER: Hi Sam,

You were born during the year of the Metal Rooster, month of the Water Dragon and day of the Wood Rabbit.

Actually your chart indicators of family happiness are above normal.

Having said that, there is something you should know. Everyone's chi (energy/life force) fluctuates during their life. Yours is highest at the beginning and end. This means there could be some tough periods in between.

Specifically, your chi is low in childhood and maturation. It doesn't rise to normal until mid-life, approximately after age 35. From there it steadily increases through retirement.

The odds are against early marriage for this type of profile. That means you should marry closer to age 30 than 20.

So, yes, I see romantic relationships in your life, especially after age 35. I'm sorry to have to say be patient. Then again, I am offering hope.

By the way, I'm not just saying this to cheer you up. It's what your chart reveals.

If you would like to learn more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my web site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com. If you would like a detailed analysis of your love life, you can order a reading at the site for a modest charge.

Thank u for your question.

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QUESTION: Ya know I kinda felt like that might be the case since most of my attempts at romance simply fail and kinda feel forced. I'm glad to know you saw this in the chart. So what reading from that site would be best for me do you think, I see a few different ones there. Also any suggestions for learning your type of astrology, books (aside from the one mentioned)?

Answer
Sam,

The reading you are interested at the site is called the Personal Relationship report.

There is one very good (the best) book to help understand people and relationships. It is Theodora Lau's The Handbook of Chinese Horoscopes. You can probably get a used one at a very reasonable price at amazon.com.

Thank u for your question.