Expert: Bill Hajdu - 12/20/2009

Question
QUESTION: Hi Bill,

My birthday is April 7, 1984 (7:30pm MST). How compatible am I with:

Guy A: September 3, 1983
Guy B: April 15, 1985

Who am I more compatible with?

Thanks in advance!

Jennifer

ANSWER: Hi Jennifer,

You were born during the year of the Wood Rat, month of the Earth Dragon, day of the Metal Sheep and hour of the Earth Dog.

A was born during the year of the Water Pig, month of the Metal Monkey, and day of the Wood Horse.

B was born during the year of the Wood Ox, month of the Earth Rabbit and day of the Wood Monkey.

From a Chinese astrology perspective your match with A is 94% favorable, which is outstanding, and with B 44%, which is below average.

You are clearly more compatible with A.

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Thank u for your question.

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QUESTION: Hi Bill,

Thank you so much for your response. It has helped me a lot.

Out of curiosity... since I have a personal interest in Chinese astrology and the effects of the elements on one's life... I was wondering what makes Guy A a good match for me and what makes Guy B not a very good match?

Much thanks!

Jennifer

Answer
Hi Jennifer,

Guy A is more likely to be willing and able to satisfy your emotional needs. A relationship with Guy B is likely to result in more stubbornness and clashes of will.

There are some very good things about Guy B, especially with the those Rat-Dragon-Monkey group signs. You probably can connect intellectually and really enjoy talking to each other.

On the other hand B's Ox year sign is the worst possible match for your Sheep sign. Although B has an emotional side himself, his Ox could have a problem with yours, that is, lacking empathy if not even displaying frustration and dislike of it. And, you could occasionally think he is cold and unfeeling.

Since you mentioned elements, your element mix with A is better than with B. Water nourishes Wood, your year signs, and Earth produces Metal, your month signs. So, you are likely to bring out the best in each other. None of your three element matches with B are similarly favorable.

Thank u for your question.