Expert: Pradeep Mishra - 12/1/2009

Question
Dear Pradeep,   

I'm a cancerian girl in love with an aries guy. I don't know much about astrology but i've read a lot that we don't match together so i'd really appreciate it if you could give me some hope and tell me more about our compatibility in more details plz and if we're meant to be together.

My DOB is 20/7/79 born in Delhi at 1 pm and my guy's DOB is 23/3/79 born in Abu Dhabi (time is unknown).   

Thank you very much.  

Answer
hello, the concept of compatibility is based on planetary matching and some other facts which obtained by the birth chart. Actually our personality and whole life govern by the planets map at the time of our birth. So based on date of birth,time,place and full name we become able to prepare the maps of planets at the time of birth of any person. If you follow 100% destiny then no need of compatibility matching because as per vedic concept every pair is decided at the time of birth so this is confirm you will marry that person only who is already decided by God, either you match birth chart or not. The positive and negative of your married life is already decided and it will be happened. So why we need to do the compatibility and what are the methods. There are many methods of compatibility by birth chart, neumerology and palmistry are main methods. Out of these birth chart matching is more accurate and in details. You may say it is scientific because this is able to find out spiritual and physical both matching.
In answer of why matchin if everything decided I can say that there is a karma which is always greater then luck. According to vedic astrology luck or destiny made by karma. So by matching birth chart and taking precautions and remedies as per birth chart are the karma which reduce the negativity of married life or increase the auspiciousness. I can say everything in details and this need lot of pages to define the facts. But is very short to make your self good prepare for your future and decide your way of life this is must that you should match your birth chart. This is not true that if you will do marriage by birth chart matching there will be always everything fine. Whatever written in your destiny that will take place. Only you will be aware and able to make this less negative by taking help of astrology. You have not given the time of guy so I am doing your compatibility by numerology only. This is not a very good match. The compatibility is around 50%. Looking to your DOB this is seen that your married life will have some trouble and min two marriage or marriage like relation is possible. Out of two if one have been already happened and closed ( mostly this is already happened) then this negativity is 70% discharged and now you will be having good married. If not then you have to take care and get matched your birth chart properly and do the precautions and remedies before marriage. If you want my paid service you may contact me at my emai ID mishra508@yahoo.co.in. God bless you.