Expert: Bill Hajdu - 7/15/2009

Question
Hi Bill
My name is pavithra
DOB :23-MAY-1986
Place : Chennai ,India

My Husband name is Ashok
DOB :21-AUG-1984
9.06 AM
Tell us about our compatablity

How will be our future ?? In terms of Health , Wealth ,Happiness ,Kids etc

Thanks in Advance Ji


Answer
Hi Pavithra,

You have managed to ask many questions in one. A detailed answer could easily run over 100 pages. What I will do is answer one question now. If you like, you may ask one follow up question.

You were born during the year of the Fire Tiger, month of the Water Snake and day of the Fire Rabbit.

Your husband was born during the year of the Wood Rat, month of the Water Monkey, day of the Fire Pig, and hour of the Wood Snake.

From a Chinese Astrology perspective this match has a 63% favorable, compatibility rating, which is very good. There is a good chance it will last and bring you the happiness you seek.

Having said this, I do want to alert you to two, potential problems. First, there is not a lot of Earth in your two charts. This indicates a lack of practicality, of substance. At least one of you needs to make an extra effort to handle the routine matters of daily living, planning, and administrative details, or these will cause you difficulties. Second, perhaps even more important, your husband ha two signs from the Rat-Dragon-Monkey compatibility group, and you have none. You may not satisfy this side of him, which he requires. He could seek satisfaction elsewhere. You might consider getting a book on Chinese Astrology, or just Google these signs on the internet, so you can better understand him and his needs.

In fact there is one more thing I should mention. His Monkey month sign is in opposition to your Tiger, year sign. In the jungle the Monkey's favorite game is to grab the Tiger's tail and then run away before the Tiger can retaliate. In the same way, your husband could enjoy playing mind games with you, something which may drive you crazy or at least irritate and frustrate you.

Overall, it is a good match, but it does have its challenges.

If you would like to know more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my web site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com. If you would like a detailed analysis of your relationship, you can order one at the site for a modest charge.

Thank u for your question. And, don't forget your follow up if you are still interested.