Expert: Bill Hajdu - 8/19/2009

Question
QUESTION: Hi Mr.Hajdu - I have a question regarding personal elemental balance.

I got myself a bazi chart from the net. However later on as i looked into matters more I discovered that there is a seasonal and a lunar version of this chart. As I am born on the 13/02/80 in Hong Kong  at 8 am - It was 2 days before the lunar new year in 1980. Trying the lunar version of the chart leaves me with a elemental balance of 23303 vs 32524 with the seasonal chart.

I have heard that it is very very bad to be lacking an element.

I understand a simple remedy would be to wear gold/metal and wear white/yellow but I am worried about increasing the water element which harms my day master - Bing (in both charts) I also realise an alternative remedy is increasing Earth but then this also harms the day master.

I would appreciate clarification on whether I am truly missing the metal element and if so what do you recommend i do?

Any advice would be much appreciated,
Thank You
Katey.


ANSWER: Hi Katey,

To be honest I am hesitant to answer your question because Ba Zi is not my specialty.

I have, however, done a four pillars chart on you to determine your element balance (in my system). With the above understanding, I would like to offer these observations.

First, you are correct that an element imbalance is a cause for concern. Second, you are also correct to not want to increase your Water element. Your hour pillar is Water, and that should be sufficient, since Water is also the fixed element of your month sign.

My chart does show you to be lacking Metal. I agree with wearing Metal jewelry. I would suggest going beyond that by considering health and dietary matters. One thing you might do is spend more time outdoors, especially where the air is fresh. You should be able to find good, traditional, Chinese doctors and herbalists in Hong Kong. Get your (four) pulses checked as well as signs of blockages in your meridians, especially the Taiyin Lung Meridian, as Metal is associated with that organ.  They should also be able to give you some dietary recommendations to help you better deal with the lack of Metal in your chart.

Please visit my web site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com. If you would like a detailed analysis of your elements, you can order one at the site for a modest charge.

Thank you for your question.

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QUESTION: Thank You for your advice Mr. Hajdu. I will look into TCM and see what needs to be done. I am asking for a follow up in your area of expertise - relationships. I attributed the lack of metal to signify something important from the relationship aspect. According to my horoscope do you see happiness in the love/marriage sector of my life?

Answer
Hi Katey,

No, I don't think a lack of Metal signifies something important from the relationship aspect.

On the other hand, there are two indications in your chart that indicate relationships is likely to be the most challenging area of your life. First, you should know Metal is not the only element you lack. Wood is another, and it is the one associated with relationships. Also, you were born in the month of the Ox. The Ox lady is the one most likely to choose the wrong guy. You should always get an outside opinion from someone you trust and who is wise before you commit yourself to a relationship.

To improve your chances of success, you really should try to follow the book when it comes to compatibility recommendations. For you the best match is someone born in the year of the Rabbit, four years older or eight years younger. Also, someone born in the year of the Snake, two years older or ten years younger is a great match.

If you would like to learn more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, you can order a detailed relationship analysis at my site if you would like to know more about your situation.

Thank u for your question.