Expert: Bill Hajdu - 9/29/2009

Question
please tell me if this relationship will bring lasting happiness or if perhaps I should not be with this person:
My date of birth is 6/13/1969 time unknown and his is 9/11/1967 time unknown. Thank you.

Answer
Hi Scarlet,

You were born during the year of the Earth Rooster, month of the Earth Snake and day of the Earth Sheep.

He was born during the year of the Fire Sheep, month of the Earth Rooster and day of the Earth Tiger.

From a Chinese Astrology perspective this match has a 56% favorable, compatibility rating, which is good but not great.

It could last and bring you happiness, but there are always likely to be clashes of will and arguments. When it's good, it will be really good, as your Snake month is a perfect match for the other person's Rooster month sign and a very good match for their Sheep year sign.

As to whether you should or should not be with this person, it depends on whether you both believe the positives of this relationship outweigh the negatives. Unless you develop a strong bond, you could drift apart over the long term.

There is thus some risk here in making a permanent commitment. The relationship is worth pursuing, but you must be absolutely sure before you make a final decision. To be honest, you can do a lot better.

If you would like to learn more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my web site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com. If you would like a detailed analysis of your relationship, you can order one at the site for a modest cost.

Thank u for your question.