Expert: Bill Hajdu - 1/30/2010

Question
Hello Sir, please tell me about my relationship compatibility or anything related to my relationship that I need to know. My birthdate 25.12.1986 at 10.10am calcutta india. His birthdate 29.12.1980 at 22.35 khetrinagar jhunjhunu, rajasthan. I can provide our names if you require them. Thank you so much.

Answer
Hi J,

You were born during the year of the Fire Tiger, month of the Metal Rat, day of the Water Rabbit and hour of the Fire Snake.

He was born during the year of the Metal Monkey, month of the Earth Rat, day of the Fire Rat and hour of the Earth Pig.

From a Chinese Astrology perspective this match has a 30% favorable, compatibility rating, which is significantly below average. The odds are against this match lasting and bringing you the happiness you seek.

You would both be much happier with someone born during the year of the Dragon, two years younger or ten years older than you.

Your element balance is good, which means your strengths and weaknesses are complementary.

Unfortunately his Monkey year sign is the worst possible for your Tiger. Over time his little (mind) games could drive you crazy. Although he can be very charming, his signs are not really strong enough to satisfy your Tiger and Snake signs.

Also, his Pig hour sign is the worst possible match for your Snake hour sign. His openness and possible naivete could drive your Snake crazy. Over time you could become very irritated and dissatisfied with this relationship.

As I said, he can be very charming, so it is probably a match worth pursuing.

No, I don't need your names.

Unfortunately there are no two or three quick things I could tell you that would make your life easier. You really need to get a complete analysis of both your signs and your match as a whole. I normally don't say this, but you can and should get one at my web site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com. There is a modest charge.

A good book is Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. It is packed with information you should know. And, the internet has lots of free information. Just Bing/Google his and your signs and read what they have to say.

Good luck to you.