Expert: Subbarao M V - 11/1/2010

Question
QUESTION: My DOB: 8th Oct 1979, time: 1:22 am, place: New Delhi
Boys  : 28th Sept 1979, time: 5:42 pm, place: Samana, Punjab(India)

We got married 2 years ago and are now separated since 3 months due to a fight. Our fights happen because his parents do not like me or him visiting my family and whenever i have to go they force me to go alone. even my hsuband feels his parents are right in this case. Though my inlaws dont stay with us they want to know every little thing we are doing in our life. My husband listens to them only, even though he tries to take decisions which keep us both happy, his final decision is whatever keeps his parents happy no matter how hurt i feel or how much disrespect he and his family show to my family.
After the fight (where he forced me to leave the house) my father talked to hm and his father, even though my husband said that it was only anger and that he would like us to get back together, my father-in-law did not talk properly to my dad and only kept blaming him for my "behaviour". They never agree that in a fight both parties are involved, they never agree that their son is at any fault.
Now my husband wants my father to call up once again and try to clarify things. I do not wish to make my father go through the humiliation once again. I want to re-unite with my husband but not at the cost of my parents respect. My husband does not think it is wrong if boy's side demands things and wants more respect than a girl's side (even though he is well educated when it comes to such matters he always takes his parents side)
I do not know what to do and how to resolve this. I do not wish to stay with my in-laws at all any more but i want to get back with my husband and live a happy life.
Please let me know what the future holds and if we will ever re-unite and if in future also such fights will continue or will my husband be able to give respect and rights to his wife in his life ever.
I know sir you are a busy man but please try and help out someone in great despair. God will surely bless you for your kind help

ANSWER: kapoork.. as per thr data given by you, your husband is a very good person. Equal respect he  will give to you and also to his parents. as per his birth chart, after march 2011,you will be united.
2) asper your chart,Mars and Venus are very weak. On every Tuesday and Friday, worship your Ishatade4va..or Lord Subrahmanaya.
3) If your husband wants to send your father, please send..  I repeat please send your father. For a girl's parents, humiliation is  an ornament. Every parent wants their daugther to be very happy, even at the cost of some humiliation.
So listen to your husband's words.
There is Manglic dosham in your chart.Get some pariharam  for it.
I wish you both to be very very happy.

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QUESTION: Sir you have said that husband will give equal respect but that is not the truth, he is not doing so till date. He is acting like an orthodox and only giving respect to his own parents - he forces me to do things as his parents wish even if it gives me pain.
1) I cannot bear his parents interference and dominance any more, can you please tell me if that will continue when we re-unite.
2) Will he never give respect to my parents because they are the girls parents they will have to undergo humiliation? even in this day and age when they have taken so much pain to educate their daughter, will they still be treated to things as if they are living in an old era?
3) sister-in-law is also staying with us (unmarried) and created friction all the time, is she likely to back off after her marriage (29th July 1982, 8:15am, Samana, Punjab, India)

Answer
papa,  you are like my child ( daughter).I repeat there is a manglic dosham in your chart. After March 2011, some miracles may happen.
Have faith in the lord.We have to prepare for some bad periods.If his parents are intelligents, this will not happen.
2) There is also a lapse on your part that you could not attract your husband, to your side. This is all planetary affects.
3)wait for sommore time and stay with your parents till the troublesome-period ends.
If possible  read or listen to Nalcharitra.