Expert: LeLonni Campbell - 12/14/2010

Question
Hi,
My name is diana dob sept 30 77 @ 530 am place of
birth 31°20'0"N and 110°56"0'W. I was wondering if
you can tell me why it is that lately I feel as if I'm stuck
in a 'rut' I feel like the relationship with my siblings is
not what it used to be before, my husband and I are
having problems,  I hate my job, I feel like I have no
friends because the few that I have I feel like they
don't like me or they don't want to talk to me. In other
words, I feel like a total failure in every aspect of my
life.  What's going on with me? Will this feeling go
away and when?
Thank you so much!

Answer
I took a look at your chart and to me the thing that is an issue right now is your ability to just relax and enjoy life.  In some ways you are a very social person, your a people pleaser that enjoys making others happy, in other ways you are a very intense person who holds a lot in. You talk about your life but you hold back on some of the areas that you find troubling, so I am not sure you share how you feel, holding sometime like that in all by itself can create some discontent.

The area of your chart that shows your relationship with your siblings has stress to it so I wonder if you ever had an easy relationship with them, your chart suggests possible power struggles within the family.  

In general your chart is being affected by the planets Saturn and Pluto, Mars now in Capricorn just adds to this long term energy.  You are at a point in your life where you are questioning not just your past but where you are going to end up in your future.  The planets are pushing you you to make some changes in your life.  Their is a need for you to just let go and trust, something that is very difficult for you.  As to your marriage the planet Uranus has been affecting your marriage house, this can indicate many things but in a general sense it usually means some areas of your Marriage need to be looked at.  You may need to look at your needs and your husbands needs are they still being met, do you need to look at each other differently, my guess is you do the types of transits you are experiencing indicate issues have come up that have you questioning what you want from and are willing to give to your marriage.

Anytime you have a Saturn transit and you are, the feeling of being stuck is common, the reason for being stuck is it forces you to look at where you need to make adjustments.  Saturn will be in Libra another year or so, Pluto will be affecting your chart for several years, so change is going to continue in your life.  We have no control over anything in life except how we react to it.  You are at a time when your actions are paving the path for your future, so use this time to look into you soul and find out what you really what.

Lonni

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