Expert: LeLonni Campbell - 3/24/2010

Question
I was born 19/12/65/nowra nsw aust@ 6.50am
Ive read on a few occasions I need to be with someone whom is volitile! so I can sooth this person!I think this to be insane to say this, but also,if say for example a Sagg like me should is more compatible with a Leo, or Areis in sun signs, do you need to just match your moon sign, acendent ect to be compatible as well? Wouldnt that be your most compatible match?
If so whos mine!? Thanks Jacqueline

Answer
Hi Jacqueline

First I would never recommend to actively seek out a person who is volatile, its not a way to express yourself in a positive way.  Our charts reflect our energy patterns, and we can see the type of person whom we would be attracted to, in a female chart Mars and the Sun are the main indictors of the type of man a woman attracts, in a mans chart Venus and the Moon indicate the type of woman he will attract.  Your Mars is in the sign of Capricorn that alone tells me you are better off in a relationship with someone who is mature and steady.  You tend to like excitement and you are more than capable of creating drama, even when none exists, its stimulating to you.  But your emotional needs are powerful you need emotional support and someone who is intuitive of your needs, that normally does not come with someone who is volatile by nature.  My advice would be for you to find someone who sooths you.  

Its difficult to judge a relationship by just the sunsign you need to look at the entire chart as well as how that chart interacts with your own.  Another quality you have is you like to help people you want to make their lives better, but you can end up being a rescuer which means you attract people who are needy or have issues and problems to deal with.  I think sometimes you are challenged in where your boundaries are, so its are area to be careful with. Its good to help others, but when it comes to a relationship unless both involved are coming into it with a healthy outlook, the relationship will have problems and more than likely not survive.

LeLonni

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