Expert: Bill Hajdu - 4/13/2010

Question
Unfortunately finding out too late, my first wife was a Sagittarian Earth Rooster born 12/4/1969. I am a Aquarian Fire Horse, born 1/27/1966. She is particularly bossy, obstinate, resentful, and particular.

It has come to my attention that a Libran Earth Sheep (1979) or a Libran Water Dog (1982) would be the best choices for me. Am I on the right track? Should I be including the Taurean/Libran Fire Tiger?

Answer
Hi Brian,

Yes. I don't, however, use combined Western and Chinese signs, but I will give you some good, Chinese months.

Speaking theoretically, Wood is the best element for your Fire (You put Wood on a Fire to make it burn brightly.),and Tiger and Dog are the best signs for your Horse.

Thus I would say your best match is a Wood Tiger, 1974(coincidentally my step daughter is a Wood Tiger---wonderful lady). Wood Dog unfortunately doesn't fall into a realistic age group.

Your Earth Sheep is very good, as Sheep is almost as good a match for Horse as Tiger or Dog. Also, the Horse man tends to keeps his looks and youth longer than other signs, so a (much) younger lady is more appropriate than for other signs. Also, Fire is the most constructive element for Earth.

Although Dog is good, I'd be concerned about a 1982 Water Dog, as Water plus Fire in Chinese equals disaster.

Since you were born in a Tiger Month, your best months for the lady would be Horse and Dog. This is especially good for the Sheep lady, as you want to have some strong signs in there to complement her gentle Sheep. All your signs are strong, so you need a lady you can respect and who can keep up with you.

So, for 1974 the best months for the lady are Jun 20-Jul 18 (Horse month) and Oct 15-Nov 13 (Dog month). For 1979 May 26-Jun 23 (Horse month) and Oct 21- Nov 19 (Dog month).

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Thank u for your question.