Expert: Bill Hajdu - 5/1/2011

Question
Hello Bill,

What do you think about the compatibility between me, born the 31st of march 1976 (3.17am) and someone born the 8th of aug 1984. Does this relationship miss something? And what can I learn about myself?

Thank you very much and have a nice day!

Answer
Hi Catherine,

You were born during the year of the Fire Dragon, month of the Water Dragon, day of the Water Horse and hour of the Water Tiger.

The other person was born during the year of the Wood Rat, month of the Water Monkey and day of the Wood Dog.

From a Chinese Astrology perspective this match has a 100% favorable, compatibility rating, which is rare and indicates this match has a fantastic chance of lasting and bringing you the happiness you seek.

There are only two things I see in your charts that could complicate this idyllic pronouncement. First, your signs are all about passion and directness, while his are all about indirectness and head games. In short, you're a creature of heart and he one of head, passion vs logic. So, neither of you is going to do a great job satisfying the other's needs when it comes to this aspect of your persona.

Secondly, your elements perfectly complement each other, balancing out your strengths and weaknesses. In fact his is almost perfectly balanced, indicating a strong person. (You probably want to be with a strong man, so this is good.) You, however, lack Metal in your chart. Happily this happens to be his strong point. The problem is he (not quite) almost has it to excess. This makes you two very different on this point. Specifically, he has a lot more determination and stubbornness than you do. All four of your signs do not tolerate stubbornness well.

When you put these two issues together, you're likely to have lots of clashes of wills. Given your great compatibility, it would be a shame if they were to weaken an otherwise great match.

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Thank u for your question.