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hi.. my D.O.B is 12/11/1985 and my partner D.O.B is 27/11/1981 .. I would like to know how would be our relation with each other after marriage?

Hi Taruni,

You were born during the year of the Wood Ox, month of the Fire Pig and day of the Wood Rabbit.

Your partner was born during the year of the Metal Rooster, month of the Metal Rat and day of the Earth Rooster.

From a Chinese Astrology perspective this match has a 42% favorable rating, which is below average. Unfortunately I see two things in your charts that makes this look more like a fatal attraction than a match made in heaven. Normally Rooster is a great match for the Ox, and your partner has two of them. The problem is your day sign, Rabbit. The Rabbit is a peacemaker and absolutely dislikes arguments and stressful situations. Well Rooster, and the Rat to a lesser extent, live for them. I am afraid there are likely to be many times when you think your partner is trying to drive you crazy. The second thing is your elements are unlucky for each other. For example, partner's year Metal chops/destroys your year Wood Luck. And, your month Fire melts/destroys partner's Metal Luck. In other words, you may not be lucky for each other.

In short, I think it's often going to be tense and probably not bring you the happiness you seek. I'm sorry I couldn't give you better news.

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Bill Hajdu


Chinese Astrology. I`ve done Chinese astrology for over 25 years, pimary experience Ming Shu style. I am NOT a psychic. I can't answer questions about when a particular event will occur, when/if your life will change, or what your spouse is going to be/look like. I do comment on relationships, career, personality analysis and life cycle chi, i.e., energy level and influences at each of the five stages of life. I evaluate specific relationships or can look at your love life in general. I can tell you your best career choices and whether the one you've chosen is good for you. And, I can identify the strong and weak times in your life. I've done work for Yahoo, and


I've studied Chinese astrology for over 25 years now and done many thousands of charts. My specialty is Four Pillars method, particularly as applied to evaluating relationships. I've also done Nine Star Ki and readings using Mah Jong tiles. I have now completed my first, automated Zi Wei Dou Shu (Purple Star) product. It focuses on Luck. Next year I plan on creating one or two more Purple Star projects focusing on Fate.

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