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I am born may25th 1970, metal dog and am having turbulent times with my wife born on may20 1986, fire tiger...i have seperated from her since last 9 months... she is staying with her parents for now.

i am afraid to call her back to my house since we have lots of arguments and fight. do you think its wise to call her back and try our relationship once again?

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Hi Sami,

From a Chinese Astrology perspective this match has a 72% favorable, compatibility rating, which is very good. So on the surface it appears to definitely be worth it to try to make things work.

On the other hand, there is one thing about which I need to tell you. Her year sign is Fire, and yours is Metal. Those two elements are in a destructive relationship in Chinese Astrology, i.e., not lucky for each other. To make things worse for you, her Metal controls your Fire.

In general it does seem like a good idea to call her given your high favorability rating. The question in my mind is whether or not you are ready to give her control of the relationship. If you are not willing to do it on her terms, the odds are probably against it working long term.

If you would like to learn more about Chinese Astrology, I recommend Susan Levitt's Taoist Astrology and Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my web site, www.onlinechineseastrology.com. If you would like a detailed analysis of your relationship, you can order one at the site for a modest charge. And, if you like the web site, please “like” Online Chinese Astrology on Facebook and recommend the site to your friends.

Thank you for your question and good luck to you.  

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Chinese Astrology. I`ve done Chinese astrology for over 20 years, pimary experience Ming Shu style. I am NOT a psychic. I can't answer questions about when a particular event will occur, when/if your life will change, or what your spouse is going to be/look like. I do comment on relationships, career, personality analysis and life cycle chi, i.e., energy level and influences at each of the five stages of life. I evaluate specific relationships or can look at your love life in general. I can tell you your best career choices and whether the one you've chosen is good for you. And, I can identify the strong and weak times in your life. I've done work for Yahoo, astrology.com and onlinechineseastrology.com.

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I've studied Chinese astrology for over 20 years now and done several thousand charts. My specialty is four pillars method, particularly as applied to evaluating relationships. I've also done Nine Star Ki and readings using Mah Jong tiles. My next step is to learn Purple Star astrology. It identifies many more chart details, but accurate readings are time consuming and dependent upon a lifetime of acquired experience.

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M.A. International Relations, University of Southern California (USC) Graduate)

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Distinguished Graduate, USC

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