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Good evening Mr. Hajdu:

I hope that your weekend has been relaxing.

I was wondering if you could please tell me about the strengths and weaknesses in a relationship between a:

male born on October 8th, 1985, at 3:37pm (PDT)
and a female born on April 28th, 1992.


I'm sorry to say the biggest weakness in this relationship is an overall favorable rating of 31%, which is significantly below average. Your Ox and partner's Monkey year signs don't go well together. Your Ox sign is itself a strength, as that is one of the things the Ox symbolizes. The strength of your partner's Monkey sign is that it adds fun and playfulness to the relationship. Also, your partner is likely to have a wide variety of talents.

Looking at your elements I see one nice strength and one glaring weakness. You have a high average amount of Earth in your two charts. That element is associated with practicality, a down to earth personality capability of dealing with all the routing details which everyone has to handle successfully to keep a relationship running smoothly. The weakness is a lack of Water. This element is associated with communications and interpersonal relations.You may find it difficult talking out problems and accurately conveying your feelings to each other.

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Bill Hajdu


Chinese Astrology. I`ve done Chinese astrology for over 25 years, pimary experience Ming Shu style. I am NOT a psychic. I can't answer questions about when a particular event will occur, when/if your life will change, or what your spouse is going to be/look like. I do comment on relationships, career, personality analysis and life cycle chi, i.e., energy level and influences at each of the five stages of life. I evaluate specific relationships or can look at your love life in general. I can tell you your best career choices and whether the one you've chosen is good for you. And, I can identify the strong and weak times in your life. I've done work for Yahoo, and


I've studied Chinese astrology for over 25 years now and done many thousands of charts. My specialty is Four Pillars method, particularly as applied to evaluating relationships. I've also done Nine Star Ki and readings using Mah Jong tiles. I have now completed my first, automated Zi Wei Dou Shu (Purple Star) product. It focuses on Luck. Next year I plan on creating one or two more Purple Star projects focusing on Fate.

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