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Dear Bill,

I was born on January 14th, 1989.
I was hoping to better understand myself in romantic relationships based on my chart. Could you lend me some of your insights? Thank you.

Hi Gia,

OK, let me tell you three, important things.

First, you have three, strong signs. You need a partner you can respect. The best for you is someone born in the year of the Snake, one year younger or 11 years older.

Second, you don't have any Water in your chart. That element is the one most closely associated with interpersonal relations and communications. You may have difficulty in talking with your partner/lover. This can create strains in the relationship. You'll have to really work on your skill in this area. By the way, your situation may not be as bad as I just described. I don't know your time of birth, so you could have some Water in your hour sign.

Third, your year, month and day signs conflict with each other, especially Dragon-Dog. They are conflicting opposites. They pull you in different directions. The Dragon is a big optimist and the Dog a big pessimist. This can make you confused. And when it comes to relationships, it can confuse your partner, who will see you as unpredictable, hard to deal with. You really need to study the characteristics of those two signs so you can let your partner know that you have this two-sided personality and can better understand you.

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Thank you for your question.  


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Bill Hajdu


Chinese Astrology. I`ve done Chinese astrology for over 25 years, pimary experience Ming Shu style. I am NOT a psychic. I can't answer questions about when a particular event will occur, when/if your life will change, or what your spouse is going to be/look like. I do comment on relationships, career, personality analysis and life cycle chi, i.e., energy level and influences at each of the five stages of life. I evaluate specific relationships or can look at your love life in general. I can tell you your best career choices and whether the one you've chosen is good for you. And, I can identify the strong and weak times in your life. I've done work for Yahoo, and


I've studied Chinese astrology for over 25 years now and done many thousands of charts. My specialty is Four Pillars method, particularly as applied to evaluating relationships. I've also done Nine Star Ki and readings using Mah Jong tiles. I have now completed my first, automated Zi Wei Dou Shu (Purple Star) product. It focuses on Luck. Next year I plan on creating one or two more Purple Star projects focusing on Fate.

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